In our modern and almost entirely emancipated society, lonely beautiful girls are gradually becoming a phenomenon already quite common.
Nevertheless, the reasons for this continue to be of interest and are widely discussed, because they are completely unobvious. And in fact, it would seem, appearance is extremely important for women, and having a bright appearance is a win-win ticket to a similarly bright happy life. However, according to statistics, most beauties are personally deprived of personal happiness, because a person can not be happy alone.
Or is it not about appearance? After all, you can often see the girls of the most ordinary, ordinary, so-called "gray mice", which are surrounded by a much larger number of men than their more effective externally girlfriends. Why does this happen? Let's see why beautiful girls often remain alone? There can be several reasons for this.
In our society, female beauty is a commodity. This axiom from childhood to us in the head hammered media, advertising and notorious public opinion. No matter how much we talk about the beauty of the soul, about the deep inner world and about the spiritual priority over the material world, girls, and then girls want to be beautiful above all, and therefore smart, kind, gentle. Because the pages of fashion magazines - beauties, because the television screens - beauties, because the girlfriends and wives of politicians, athletes, pop stars - beauties. Beauty is a running brand, an indispensable condition for a successful life. If you are lucky enough to be born beautiful, then your task is to preserve, multiply and sell your beauty in the end more expensively. But no advertising, no glossy edition teaches girls that beauty is a coming, temporary, unreliable phenomenon, which, in the language of economic terms, can not be a reliable capital.
In addition, the "naked" female beauty itself is powerless. How often do we observe the empty-headed charming girls-dolls, moth girls who, apart from their external attractiveness, have nothing more in their assets: no education, no desire to do something in life, no ambitions, no clear plans for life, except one - find a rich sponsor. And these moths fly to the golden light of wealth and burn in it, remaining after unsuccessful novels with maimed fates.
But it happens the other way round - often beautiful intellectuals with brilliant education and career remain alone. And here there are completely different reasons.
First, such a girl also knows her own worth. And, as a rule, this price is high up to impossibility. As they say, "not for you, commoners, my mother raised me a princess." Hence the image of the cold, impregnable "snow" queen is born. And it is he who becomes an obstacle for acquaintance with a potential partner. A male leader will be scared off by the image of an "iron lady", and weak men who are used to being commanded will not have the courage to approach such an arrogant woman.
Hence follows "secondly" - beautiful girls often give birth in the minds of men about such thoughts: "so beautiful, so many fans; means, certainly not alone; it means that it will certainly sweep away, and, consequently - it should not be tried. " Meanwhile, the girl may just be too proud or too timid to be the first to get to know the guy you like. Or maybe the grandmother who raised her, who had been persisting from her early years to her granddaughter, that "decent girls are not the first to get acquainted" is to blame. "
However, of course, adequately overestimated self-conceit and healthy egoism should have any girl, but (!) It is adequate and it is healthy. You do not need to become a complete bitch, because even with the most outstanding, spectacular appearance, often the girls remain lonely because of the deep conviction that they, so beautiful, can and even need to regularly show show hysterics. So that a man does not relax to know, she is an expensive diamond, which requires special treatment, and everything is allowed to her, and he can only bear humbly these emotional storms and pray for forgiveness, beguiling his god with gifts and gifts.
Of course, being a bit bitchy will not hurt, this common female ploy diversifies relationships, introduces in them an element of keenness, plays the role of a sort of "peppercorn." But, as you know, too much pepper can spoil the most delicious dish. That's why it happens all the time that men throw their beautiful girlfriends with an unbalanced character, and leave for less beautiful, but quiet, soft and cheerful, with which they are comfortable, who do not "demand a sacrifice" for their beauty, who can listen, sorry, or even put your shoulder in a difficult moment. And then it does not matter at all, that outwardly they are the most ordinary, ordinary.
And one more reason that beautiful girls often remain lonely is the inexorable law of time. Often the girl says to herself: "I will always have time to marry with such appearance, but now it's more important to study, to make a career." And with all zeal, he strives for a given goal. And when, finally, reaches it, it turns out that all the interesting men are already either married or busy, and those that are left do not like, and the choice is not particularly rich. So it turns out that it's beautiful, and life seems to have developed, but it's lonely.
So, summing up, we can say that often in their solitude beautiful girls are to blame themselves. Beauty is not a guarantee of personal happiness, and sometimes even quite the opposite. Beauty is not capital, which must be able to put into circulation and benefit from it. Women's beauty is an invaluable gift that should bring joy to its owner and to others. And he can make happy not only the girl, but the man who will be next to her, you just need to want and try a little. After all, a truly beautiful girl is made not only by a chic figure and the right features, but the ability to genuinely smile, be open with people, kindness and tenderness. Try to be like that and you will succeed. And there can not be other recipes here.
