So why women are disenchanted with men? Probably, women are disappointed in modern guys because of the fact that they lost courage and proper attitude to the opposite sex. Girls are disappointed in men, watching their fathers and grandfathers. Agree, because most people of that generation have completely different values. Why do older women always marvel at the relationship of young people? Because at that time even an uneducated guy knew that a woman should give a hand, open the doors before her and pass in front of her, and also never swear in the presence of ladies. In modern men, it is rarely possible to discern such upbringing. Even if parents have invested it in them since childhood, the guys, looking at each other, for some reason decide that being educated is a weakness and ceasing to behave normally. Even with two higher educations and an almost genius level of ay-kyu, the guys still forget about the most elementary things they have to do for girls. And not only for loved ones and girlfriends, but also for all ladies in general. If an unfamiliar man gives a hand, it seems wild, although previously it was perceived absolutely normal. But, this is the fault of the women themselves. After all, we constantly talked about equality and feminism, began to swear with mate and behave like a man. Therefore, in our disappointment, there is a share of our guilt. Also the ladies are disappointed in the guys, because they have become absolutely not romantic. It seems to them that in the modern world everything is tied up on the material, and there is no sense in doing something unexpected, sweet and beautiful for a beloved girl. The guy just does not see the point in singing under the window serenade, writing on the asphalt a declaration of love, or come up with some interesting, romantic surprise that will surprise the girl and once again confirm the feelings of the man to her. Many guys think that ladies simply "rage with fat." In fact, this is not the case at all. Women are really difficult without romance. Their love can not be bought only by material means. It is necessary and spiritual. Therefore, when we are not given even flowers, over time it starts to oppress and destroy feelings. But, nevertheless, if a guy really cares about a girl, although he does not know how to be a romantic, you can learn how to forgive him for it. Still, this minus is not the most significant.
The more and more the ladies are disappointed in the guys who can not stand up for themselves, either morally or physically. Why does this happen and men become weaklings? Perhaps the fact is that modern guys do not have to undergo any tests. Why are our fathers and grandfathers much more persistent and sustainable mentally? Because they were tempered by war, military service, physical work. They had to take care of themselves and their families from a young age. And so many of them wanted their children to grow in more comfortable conditions. As a result, it turned out that the sons of these people absolutely do not know how to take care of themselves. They sit at computers and live a virtual life, not too much worrying about the real. Such young people do not know how to give change in a word or a fist. They are really scared to walk along dark alleys. But, on the other hand, it's not that simple. Modern women, after all, like guys with a fine nature, a special inner world. They like it when men understand cosmetics and clothes, they cry and feel everything sensibly. This leads to the fact that there are such representatives of the male, which is difficult to call the guys. They look and behave like girls. That's why, you need to know exactly what kind of man we want. Someone who will happily go shopping with us and watch melodramas or someone who will be able to punish our offenders and will not allow anyone to do something bad for their woman. In fact, such men also stayed, we simply do not pay much attention to them, because they are dressed worse than modern effeminate metrosexuals and behave far from always as subtle and as the girls would like.
Of course, mental weakness, this is another problem of modern men. And here they have nothing to justify. Every woman always wants to see in her boyfriend someone who knows how to fight and achieve the goal. It is the man who should be the head of the family, the chief earner, who can make sure that his family is well and calmly. Even with equality and democracy, women do not want to see loved ones as weaklings and householders. But the modern generation of boys more and more behave this way. They have many complexes that do not allow them to live normally. But the problem is that they do not try to overcome them. Such men are comfortable to live with behind their imaginary problems. They say that they can not achieve anything and call the invented reasons. In this case, often, they do not even try to do something and move somewhere. But with pleasure they reflect on the injustice of life, about the fact that they are losers and do not deserve anything. This behavior causes pity, and many, at first, try to support and help them. But, in the course of time they understand that no matter how they try to pull the guy out of the depression, they can not do it. Because he does not want to. It is convenient for him to live like this, hiding behind the backs of others. This is the biggest disappointment for a girl.
To completely not be disappointed in a strong field, you need to learn not to pay attention to their small flaws and, choosing a guy, honestly and adequately evaluate it. We all know from the beginning who and what it is. But we constantly try to correct young people and do better. And then we are disappointed. Therefore, you must initially be honest with yourself, so as not to cry over broken dreams.