A woman is beautiful, intelligent, cheerful. I graduated from university, working on a promising job, maybe even have an apartment or a car, and sometimes it's both. The man is also stupid, apparently not Brad Pitt, but not quasi-modal. He lives separately from his parents, he knows how to be gallant and romantic. But, alas, they are alone. In what reason? After all, they have everything and they, often, achieve this themselves. Modesty? Lack of time? Uncertainty about your beauty? Fear of relationship?
Or another option - she fell in love with him, he was everything to her. It has achieved it, having crossed through many applicants, but - has blown out. For some reason, he ceased to interest her. And it began: irritation, selfishness, nit-picking. And why? Has anything changed in it? No, he's still the same man she was in love with. Is that the haircut changed. She simply understands that "this" is already her, once again adding an example to statistics - we do not appreciate what we have. Why do we not perceive ourselves more critical? This is the "modernity" in the relationship?
But if you think about it, these are all the far-fetched problems! After all, it's not how much you get, what works! Not in what muscles you have hardened and which ones do not! And it's not even about whether you live with a disabled grandmother or separately in a nehily little such cottage. It's only in you! We just became more shy, we got more uncertainty; we think that we should be better than we are. And the meaning? What has changed? All the same, we want to love and be loved. To create a family, or at least a reliable cell of society, to make children and live happily ever after. Just because of our uncertainty, we become demanding to those who are around. Because of her, we are shy to reveal ourselves. But it's very simple - you just have to be yourself! That's what it takes for a man and a woman.
Ksenia Ivanova , especially for the site