Modern men are very infantile. Therefore, many women tend to choose a partner for communication already a man of age. But the psychology of such men is very different from ours. And if you want your relations with him to last a long time and be deep, then it is important to understand this.
Psychology of Personality
What is the psychology and personality of a man after fifty years? First of all, such a person is already an adult. At this age, he learned to live within the framework of social rules and norms. He has already fully formed his own view of many things and his worldview. In fifty years a man not only makes a choice, but also bears responsibility for his actions. This, of course, attracts many women. In addition, such men create conditions for their development and because of this they have a certain social orcological status.
The big factor is the factor that a man is capable of. There are some who retire early and this affects their way of life and character very much. Motivation for life, its fullness of events and intensity, the activity of a man - all these factors affect our perception of the person. As a rule, at fifty the man already has a hard and steady character.
Some people believe that when a person reaches this age, the peak of his creative productivity passes. But actually it is not. Everything depends on the profession. For example, athletes or military men in the age of fifty are already "deep" pensioners. But if a person is engaged in other spheres, for example, in politics, management, business, law, medicine, etc., then his age is indicative of his performance and experience. In addition, this person has more opportunities to perform advisory and testing work, and he is able to organize his work correctly.
Thinking and intellectual abilities at this age will directly depend on how well their man develops (the same goes for his figures). If at a young age a great role was played by heredity, then now this number will not pass. Very good intelligence is possessed by those men who load it. In addition, it is worth noting that such people are less likely to suffer from Alzheimer's disease. There are such men who all the time tend to personal growth and do not lag behind the modern world. They can understand new technologies much better than a young guy or surf.
If a man has a family, then at this age he encounters the phenomenon of a "deserted nest". That is, the children are already adults and leave the parents' home, enter into an independent life. Such a stage in the family is very often a crisis, so all the problematic places in the relationship are manifested. Very much divorce is necessary for this period.
Fifty years, men communicate most with their work colleagues and their families. But at the same time, friendship is at a higher and better level, as communication with friends becomes valuable based on rational understanding (on a common worldview or interests).
It's worth mentioning about another line of relations - this is the relationship with the parents. In our time it often turns out that one of the parents is no longer alive. Therefore, the man has experience of experiencing a serious loss. Such losses always enrich the inner world of man and make him stronger. With living parents, the relationship develops according to the type of mutual assistance: parents sit with their children, and the man supports them and helps financially.
If a man at this age does not have a family, then he compensates for this through entertainment with friends. Such a course of events signals the unsuccessful passage of the crisis of an average age. But we'll talk about this a little later.
Life challenges
At each stage of our development, we face certain tasks that we must solve in order to move to the next level. These tasks are accompanied to the very end of our lives. By the age of fifty, "creative stagnation" comes to the forefront. Those men who pass through this crisis in good time, later show indifference to other people and try to help them as much as possible. Such men are interested in communicating with young people and educating them.
If a man stops in his development, then he will stagnate. A person will have a desire to do something and find out. He becomes passive and weaker. Most often this is all manifested in chronic pains and the person is obsessed with this.
More specifically, life tasks are manifested in such basic aspects:
- In fifty years, a man ceases to perceive his physical strength as an indicator of his consistency and masculinity. It is replaced by wisdom, which helps to overcome difficult situations. In addition, health does not allow to be so hardy.
- To successfully overcome the crisis stage, a man must develop in himself an emotional flexibility that will become a counterbalance to emotional poverty. With the age of many of us become insensitive, but despite this it is necessary to find the strength in ourselves to rejoice and love, to feel emotions.
- Equally important is mental flexibility. At this age, it manifests itself in the form of preparedness for new knowledge and experience.
Middle age crisis
Many people face this problem. At the age of fifty, a person realizes that most of his life has been lived and very often there is a desire to analyze everything that has been done and what mistakes have been made. Men are so organized that it is very important for them in adulthood to achieve what they dreamed about in the youth. If this does not happen, then the man falls into depression. At first it will seem to him that he has reached a small, then follow the various experiments: a change of work and other extravagant deeds.
Men do not need to find a compromise: either go for a dream, or be content with what he already has. If he manages to do this, then the problem of the crisis of medium-sized growth will be solved.
Relations between women
At the age of fifty, men build their relationships with women differently. And in this there is nothing surprising. After all, they already have a lot of knowledge and experience in this issue. Most often at this age, relationships are already being built not only on sex, but also on emotional attachment and mutual understanding. However, there are exclusions. It is interesting for a man to communicate with a woman. He will be attracted by intelligent people who can easily lead conversations.
There are such men who still have many hidden complexes. In this case, they will be more interested in sexual exploits, rather than intellectual conversations with their partner. To prove their virility, such men will meet with young girls. But this kind of attitude will have a condescending-consumer character. After all, such a rhythm is not suitable for the body of a fifty-year-old man and he will have to take various stimulant medications. And a few young girls will meet with a fifty-year-old man only for love.
Therefore, from a man at the age of fifty, one can expect everything. This age is full of surprises, and not only pleasant. And only you, lovely women, decide whether to contact such a person or not.