I believe that this temptation is not based on beauty, intelligence or the notorious "rich inner world", but on the ability to surprise. If you think about it, all the book and magazine tips for finding and keeping men are aimed at this: hook, intrigue, stand out.
Women who are in a strong union have such opportunities. A new hairstyle, lingerie, jewelry, a new gesture, a timbre of voice or even bought by myself, my beloved, a bouquet of flowers is all the tried and tested means that, praise the heavens, do not cease to work. However, to achieve the effect you need a man who sees these things.
If He shows criminal myopia, She can resort to overcooked eggs, sudden disappearances in the evenings, mysterious SMS-kam and even real treason. Shooting from emotional cannons by gray sparrows of everyday life is generally one of the favorite techniques of temperamental ladies.
No doubt, the receivers are effective, but they have two significant drawbacks. The first - for this game you need two, and only two. The second - getting carried away, it is easy to cross the line between the riddle and vulgarity. Since self-control is not the most common virtue of women, it makes sense to look for other, safer and no less effective hooks.
I dare to say that in a large company, it's easiest for a woman to stand out and draw attention to herself, indicating her interest in one of the traditionally "male" areas. Do it with the mind.
First, it is necessary to be cautious about politics, taxation, laws and other "dangerous" topics. Carried out with a statement of his point of view, you run the risk of being in the epicenter of a dispute, and your gender will be forgotten, even if the decollete extends to the waist.
Someone will attack, someone will defend, but in any case you will become "your boyfriend" and "member of the team." You can resort to such a move only if you have accurately calculated all the positions.
For example, your "subject" is a fan of any policy. After provoking the discussion, let him speak out, gently support - so you will ask the topic for a quiet conversation, when he will see you home.
Secondly, it is absolutely not necessary to build yourself an expert where you really do not know anything. Such things are discovered quickly, and it's always shameful. If you have never seen a football match in your life, do not distinguish camps from porter, do not know if there is a carburetor in the car with an injector, ask questions or keep quiet.
The second is more reliable, but excludes human contact. The man's desire to teach a woman, by the way, is also not unlimited, so it's not thankless to ask very primitive questions ("but in a white ball, yes? And in basketball red-headed?").
Thirdly, be aware of your advantage. You are a woman, which means you can afford to perceive the world around him, including his "male" spheres, a little differently.
For example, a lady is excusable to become a football fan once in four years, when the World Cup is held. If you can name at least one bright match or the surname of the author of any beautiful goal, success is assured.
The main thing immediately say something like "I'm certainly not a real fan, but I like to see a good game." And charmingly smile, so, God forbid, they did not take for a tiffozi, going to bed with a tournament table and a "rose" (this is the name of the fan's scarf).
A frequently emerging and relatively safe topic that can be talked about in a men's company is cars. In such conversations all sorts of remarkable facts about cars will be useful, which will allow you to at least maintain a conversation, if you do not start serious discussions.
Using such a more or less frivolous information about the famous brands, you can make a man's conversation a note of cheerfulness, grace, femininity , after all. The third principle works here - you have your own point of view.
A woman absolutely does not need to know how many bolts a radiator is attached to a BMW, but can notice "Oh, yes, from the small cars I like the BMW Isetta, so charming." I, incidentally, heard that they were going to be revived. "
By the way, there may be a remark "Bush / Medvedev / Timati / Pamela Andreson" drives such a car, "and the most cult car of the USSR is still a" penny ", etc.
For a woman, the machine is primarily an object of aesthetic and cultural perception, an image imitation, that's what we will talk about.
Talking to men on car topics, you can ask a lot of practical questions, from how to choose a driving school and finishing with the subtleties of insurance design.
The only thing that should not be done is to seriously discuss who leads better, women or men. This question belongs to the category of "eternal", and quarrels people no less than disputes about politics. A quarrel in our tasks is not included. Our business is to interest and surprise. About this and talk next time.