This is very painful and insulting, and sometimes it pushes us to do different things to somehow reduce our pain and resentment. Sometimes it's quarrels and scandals, sometimes depression, and sometimes it's treason, that's exactly what we'll talk about.
So what is this betrayal of the wife after marriage, and what are its possible causes? To begin with, we will not condemn or support treason here, because this is only a matter of 3 people, not the whole world. Also we do not consider cases when a woman is clearly unhappy (her husband is an alcoholic, beats, steals from home). We just try to understand the possible and most common root causes, so that someone can save or vice versa.
So, let's consider below a few basic reasons, because of which women are solved for treason, after a seemingly successful marriage.
The first case. I want to thrill.
Marriage, and, in general, family life, the case is rather monotonous and at times very boring and tedious. What to do to a woman who got into the network of life, even if this life with a beloved man? After all, every day the same actions, cooking, washing, the same work, evenings with her husband in front of the TV. Ordinary - in one word. It is not surprising that in this situation a woman very much wants sharp sensations, and where to get them? Skydiving and diving are not always suitable, and then a beautiful, passionate and tanned macho comes across the woman's eyes. Immediate release of adrenaline into the blood, and now they are entwined in the passionate embrace of adultery. Such a betrayal, first of all, does not give sexual pleasure, but a sense of risk. There is little romance between lovers, but a lot of passion. However hard it is to understand, in this type of treason, the nerve that your family life lacks attracts. To avoid betrayal, you need to add thrills to your family life
The second case. Not enough attention and affection.
Imagine such a picture, the girl all began so rosy, beloved, courtship, these lovely walks, these long nights of love. And he makes suggestions, of course, she says "yes", and everything seems to be fine. But here is a couple of years, and what do we see? All the same way of life, but the husband already does not belong, there is not enough tenderness and former enthusiasm, while it can not be said that her husband does not love. Loves, but not the same as before. In this case, the woman involuntarily begins to look for lack of affection and attention, often it turns out old partners from an unmarried life. To avoid such a betrayal, you just have to try to bring into your family life some fresh stream, erotic games, candles and so on.
The third case. My husband's job is in the first place.
This case is similar to the previous one, but here the reason is not simply to reduce tenderness and affection from the husband, here the reason is simple and complex at the same time. This is his favorite and expensive work! Passion in her husband can, and has not cooled down, but is now directed to annual reports and checking balances. His wife simply does not have time, and now, coming from such a situation in despair, a woman decides to betrayal, it's just satisfaction of physiological needs. In this case, as a rule, everything is army-clear, organized and debugged. Places, passwords and time, everything is negotiated and accounted for! Avoid this betrayal, you can only if the man himself quit his job.
Of course, all of the above reasons are not the only ones, and in each specific treason must be dealt with separately, but still this is one of the main incentives for treason.