Of course, first and foremost, love for everything must begin with self-love. If we despise ourselves, then in our personal lives or in our careers, nothing good will come of it. However, narcissism and self-love are two different things.
Narcissism is divided into several types
For sure, each of us on the street meets the people who love, and to see them, you do not need to have some special skills or to be an expert - they are visible from afar. They walk with confidence, raise their heads high and their shoulders straightened. Often, such people perfectly care for the suck and constantly work on themselves - are being improved. They are convinced that they must be the best and the first in everything and always, therefore they rarely rest.
Such people are mostly friendly with everyone, unselfish, try to give a helping hand to another person if they need it (after all, they will be able to earn more pluses!), But only if the help does not contradict their own judgments and principles. They are very good at self-criticism, so they can only improve their situation.
Such people are always very interesting in communication, sometimes even want to be like them and support them, with him I want to talk to follow them.
The second level of narcissistic people is also given to the people who take care of themselves, they are absolutely always confident in themselves, what situation would not have happened, they can also be seen from afar, but if to compare with the first type of narcissistic people, then for these holidays it is a very important part of life. Sometimes they show laziness. Regardless of what they are, there is no limit to narcissism, they believe that there is no one better than them in the world. In general, they are alone.
Such people are not particularly friendly and communicate not with people, they have their own circle of communication that meets their principles. They do not like criticism! Can they help the next? It all depends on what feet they got up from - the mood.
As well as the first subgroup of narcissistic people, these, as a rule, achieve success in the event that they are completely not lazy, which happens very rarely, but it does happen!
The third type of people are people who are so much in love that sometimes they can not call themselves a price! Yes, among such people there are excellent specialists and specialists are not so good, but they all feel themselves professionals!
Such people are quite complex, they constantly attach their opinion, they constantly do not like everything, they are not able to listen to someone else's opinion. They believe that everyone around them is people who are not worthy of their level, but what concerns work and personal life - there are no equal and replaceable people here at all!
With such people it is almost impossible to communicate-it is very difficult, because it is impossible to find a common language! After all, the behavior of these people is certainly repulsive. Help they can provide, only if it will be beneficial to them! It is to such people that the saying "It's easier and people will reach out to you!" Comes up.
Each person himself determines how much show his feelings, but it is important to remember that sometimes it looks from the side of a very funny and the impression does not produce the best.
Love yourself - heavy cross
Many psychologists say that love for oneself should be present as an indispensable condition for positively treating the kooking world. But many people completely wrong determine their love for themselves, while confusing it with narcissism.
Sometimes this mistake becomes fatal for many people, many men and women, boys and girls not only can not find common language by other people, but also most often they can not find themselves in life. The people they love do not understand what they are doing wrong and why people turn from them.
But we have already considered that such is the love, but what is love for yourself?
First of all, like love to another person, this desire and ability to build a harmonious relationship with yourself while receiving from this pleasure. And then we already get a respect, an ability to live in harmony and understanding. It's very difficult to do with yourself - after all, building relationships with another person is much easier. This is called an adequate love for oneself.
People who are around, always reach out to such a person and singled out the one, because harmony in itself is very attractive and attractive. But narcissism can be compared with a heavy cross, which people bear all their lives and do not even think that it is necessary to get rid of it.