Depression covers with a head and it would be desirable to disappear from all world. The problem is that there is nowhere. Therefore at work everything goes upside down, at home constant quarrels. A man next to his head broke in search of an answer, what you need. But around all such happy and creative personalities that you feel ... no one.
The problem of the beautiful half of humanity is precisely that it is beautiful, therefore it needs to be recharged as beautiful as it is. The crisis of beauty comes sooner or later in the life of every woman or girl. The fact is that while we are not married, we go with friends for exhibitions, museums and galleries, etc. But if a woman marries, an urgent list of cases arises immediately, because of which the beautiful is not visible. Yes, and among men you do not often find connoisseurs of beauty. They will better spend money and go to the restaurant, or they will buy new tires for the car, "it's fine, too," they philosophize. But, in this respect, men are wrong, if they stop feeding their flower, wife, water and fertilizers, then soon it wilts.
If your man does not belong to the category of representatives of the stronger sex who are not averse to going to the gallery or to the exhibition of photographs, then you all the more should think about the role of beauty of the surrounding world in the life of every woman. So, make a plan, which places to visit and in general what to do to merge with the beautiful.
1. It is necessary to visit museums, performances and exhibitions. It does not depend on whether it's fashionable, modern or popular, you have to focus on internal needs, not on a common voice. You can go to the museum of local lore, without necessarily running around it completely, inspect the most interesting objects, and at home look for additional information. Your curiosity will train your memory and become the driving force for self-improvement.
2. It is also very important to read classics. The main thing is to defeat stereotypes, which is boring and uninteresting. After all, they were instilled in us at school, because we were forced to read, and everything that is forced to do forcibly is considered uninteresting. And in general the opinion is erroneous that the classic is about high matters and other nonsense. This literature is about feelings, relationships of people, about experiences and stereotypes in different epochs.
3. It is not necessary to think that everything beautiful is hidden in galleries and museums, as well as the notes of beauty can be traced in urban landscapes.
Some time ago an artist, seeing an old woman who was rummaging in a trash can, froze with admiration. Because when she turned to him - in her hands were notes, old and shabby, which someone threw out. This situation caused an extraordinary emotional shock, because stereotypes about people of this rank have already developed, but unexpected actions are misleading. Make you rethink your whole life. Therefore, you should not think stereotypically and look for beauty only in specially designated places.
4. Walking around the native city, arrange a kind of beacons, that is, remember what and where you saw beautiful. It can be a monument, and maybe an ordinary square, it all depends on the power of your imagination. A huge plus and respect for you that you know how many historical architectural values there are in your city. And if you do not know, then go on a tour of the native city. It sounds, of course, absurd, but you will be surprised at the number of stories, mysteries that conceal the walls of the city. And most importantly, you can show your knowledge if visitors from another city come to you, pleasantly surprising them with the luggage of their knowledge.
5. Returning home, you do not need to choose a route, on the way by which you know every passerby and every pebble on the road, choose something new and more complex.
6. On the way home, look not only at beautiful landscapes and architectural values, peer at people. Take for the rule not to call people ugly, not to look for flaws, because there are no ideal and all have shortcomings. Also in every person there is something special, extraordinarily beautiful. Try to find this and admire the beauty of the eyes of an apparently not very attractive person.
7. Do not forget, the most beautiful, this is what nature has created. Pay attention to the changes in the sky before the rain ... Remember how in childhood you could run through warm puddles and get so much pleasure. Remembering this serene state, you will soon learn how to restore it, return it from childhood.
And if all these points are not inspired or persuaded to breathe in unison with the beauty of the surrounding world, then they must convince the notes of pessimism below.
The cult of beauty and its deficiency
Unfortunately, the role of the beauty of the surrounding world in the life of a woman has acquired a slightly different meaning today than before. As a result of erroneous perception, the cult of beauty triumphed in society. Daily visits to gyms and beauty salons has become the norm for modern women. We are surrounded by beautiful, well-groomed women, but at the same time, they, and the rest of the world's population, experience a lack of emotional undermining, a decline in spiritual beauty. After all, if you put a choice in front of a woman, go to a gallery or go shopping, she will not hesitate to choose the latter.
There is, of course, a second option, which suggests that women do not devote time to beauty, because they do not have enough time and money to hike in museums and exhibitions. But, unfortunately, even this fact does not justify anyone, because no one forbids reading classical literature or walking in the evening. Remember at least the poetess who, while living in the villages, found time for creativity, they did not just read it, they created it, so that today we were surrounded by beauty.
In contemporary art, however, the notion of beauty is blurred, although we should not exclude the fact that today it is not created. Create! And we do not accept it in most cases precisely because of stereotyped thinking, but if you like what modern artists paint and write poets, do not be shy about it. It just means that you have your own life position.