It turns out that such non-complex rules exist, moreover, most women know them, but not all of them use it in practice. And absolutely in vain!
1) Do not put your career above the family.
Indeed, now a lot of women are passionate about their career. For the sake of work, they sacrifice time that could be spent with loved ones, they sacrifice their attention and care, squandering emotional forces on the run on the career ladder. Many lose the charm of femininity, and become much like men. In fact, do not give up a career in favor of the family and vice versa, you need to learn to combine them without sacrificing one for the benefit of the other. In addition, it is always important to remember your feminine beginning.
2) Make an effort to create the family you want.
Without effort, you will not get a perfect family, no matter how much you dream about it. Despite the fact that the world has long recognized for feminists the right to exist, they have not been able to change some of the ancient dogmas. For example, the fact that happiness in the family depends more on the woman than on the man. Therefore, develop, correct and correct negative aspects, be proactive. Only in this way you will achieve the result you need.
3) Who is to blame?
No family can go without quarrels and discord. But, before blaming the spouse for all mortal sins, think about whether there are any shortcomings in yourself. Perhaps your behavior has caused a quarrel and it is you who must take the first step towards reconciliation. If the fault is entirely on the husband (which is extremely rare), create the conditions under which he would be happy to reconcile. Be ready to make concessions and compromises.
4) Look for the positive side.
In everything, especially in its second half. Pessimistic-minded people who are inclined to see only the bad, are unlikely to be happy in marriage. But think, is it really so bad your husband? Is there something in it that attracts you and makes your heart beat more often, despite the years spent in marriage. Surely, you will note some qualities, to hear about which the spouse will be only happy.
5) Watch the mood.
The weather in the house largely depends on the mood of the woman. If you are used to being irritated and gloomy, whining about any occasion or making claims, there can not be any talk about any mutual understanding. Put yourself in your husband's place, is it easy for him with such a wife? Even in the most difficult moments you can think of something pleasant, about your first meetings and romantic confessions. Will I want to grumble after such memories to a man who has done a lot of good for you?
6) Reasons for jealousy.
It is known that there are no guarantees that treason will not affect your family. Moreover, there is no guarantee that it is you who will not meet a new love. If the family is really more important, try to make sure that any changes do not affect the husband in any way. Do not give him cause for jealousy.
7) Do not be jealous yourself.
It is especially important not to turn into an eternally jealous brawler. If you do not have good reasons to suspect your husband of treason, do not make serious conversations, do not put ultimatums. Moreover, it is not necessary to follow the husband and control him. Only trust can become a guarantee of family happiness.
8) Educate children in respect of elders.
You should not compete with your husband for the love of your children. They love you both, love them in different ways, but equally. It is women who are engaged in the upbringing of children, especially at first, and it depends on the woman what they will be.
9) Consult your husband.
Of course, if the leadership qualities of both spouses, it will be difficult to give the reins of government to someone alone. But you can always agree. When making a serious decision, consult your spouse, he should feel that his opinion is important to you. Even if your decision is not entirely dependent on the opinion of the husband, it is important that he felt involved in your choice.
10) All these rules will not work without your desire.
If you are inclined to constant rivalry with your husband, then these rules will not help you to keep peace in the family. This does not mean at all that you should live on a house-building and become an unnamed slave, but being able to compromise, be feminine and flexible in many ways will help you change attitudes toward the better.
Undoubtedly, you have the right to demand the same attitude from your husband. In a couple where only one tries. And the second destroys, there will be no peace. Therefore, it is important that both of you aspire to the same result - to be happy together, and not separately.