Is there everlasting love?

Love is our everything! We are born to love. From the first days we love our parents and friends, but then another Love appears - strong, passionate and tender. However, most of us can not explain what it is and how strong it is. Many argue about what love is, how it manifests itself.

But everyone passes it and understands it in their own way. And at a time when you realize that this is really love, you ask yourself: is it durable? Can we know if there is everlasting love now?

There is a well-established opinion that love of oneself outlives, it fades with time. Nevertheless, there are examples of strong and long-term relationships. What links these people? Respect for each other, a habit, children - there can be many reasons. But they say: "We love each other" and at 25 years old and at age 65. The existence of eternal love, like Shakespeare's in Romeo and Juliet, can not be proved. This must be felt and believed.

What is love in the modern world? The law and modern morality give, and do not forbid, to test your feelings, there is a modern vision of love and relationships that differs from the views of our parents, grandfathers, grandmothers. But at the same time, the value of this light feeling falls.

Now eternal love is mostly a dream. But to keep love, to warm it up in our power. More often than not, we get used to a person, we think that he will always be around. But there will be no eternal love if it is not fueled by attention, pleasant and romantic surprises and caring for each other.

Many may think that there is no eternal love, but it is not. Is it a gift or a destination? The ability to love is an art that is not given to everyone. Unfortunately, we often take for love such feelings as love, mutual attraction: they are bright, strong, passionate and beautiful. But they pass. And if after that, after recognizing a person, with all its advantages and disadvantages, you say: "I love" , only then are these words about true love. It is hard in the modern world to believe in love at first sight. We fall in love with the image, but we love the person, his heart, his soul.

What is eternal love for modern man? Most likely, it's just love. It is now a rarity. Priorities have become different: career, freedom, friends, entertainment - this should be present in our lives, but there is a line that can not be crossed if you want a strong relationship. Love is incompatible with selfishness. You need to respect your beloved, his opinion and views. Preserving and maintaining a spark, brightness and passion are the basis of happiness.

Now eternal love is slightly different from that experienced in the XVIII, XIX centuries, and it happens much less often. Maybe the relationship has become different to her or the values ​​have changed, - one can argue on this topic indefinitely. But one thing will remain the same: love always appears unexpectedly in our life. Someone it is tender and beautiful, someone - passionate and bright, but unites all manifestations of true love, its depth and disinterestedness.

Is there everlasting love? Most likely, it is, everyone has his own. True love has its companions, without which it becomes dull and passes: respect, mutual understanding, trust and loyalty.

Each of us, falling in love, wishes and hopes that this is for life, it is eternal. But not always it turns out that way. Love is a relationship. And only together you can save it and make it eternal.

"Love is not a habit, not a compromise, not a doubt. This is not what romantic music teaches us. Love is ... Without clarifications and definitions. Love - and do not ask. Just love " (Paulo Coelho)