Women's friendship is considered to be the strongest and not crumbling. But it can sooner or later crack. Just one moment, you are thinking "Do I need this friendship? What does it give me? "Then you start to remember all the positive and negative aspects of your relationship. In order that you would never lose a close friend, you need to figure out what friendship is for you, what you need to do to preserve it.
I will try to help you with this. To begin with, it is necessary to understand that in friendship two people and more are equal with each other. It is considered that a friend for you and the fire and water, and the last shirt will give, and risk his life. It certainly all sounds beautiful, but in reality a friend does not owe you anything. He can both into fire and water, but only at his own will, and to perceive his actions is necessary with gratitude, and not as self-evident.
Also, when you helped a friend, do not wait or demand gratitude from him. Did, and well done. Forget. You decided to do it yourself. Of course it's hard, because everyone is waiting for praise for their actions. But if you really value friendship, do not expect gratitude for the deed that you committed in the name of friendship.
Always respect the choice of a friend, even if you are 100% disagree with him. Do not you like the music your friend listens to, the profession he chooses? Keep your opinion to yourself. He has the right to live his life as he sees fit. You just need to support him, and with the rest he will manage it himself.
Friendship does not tolerate betrayal in any form. Even if everyone is against your friend, you should always be on his side. And if he is not right, do not say this in front of everyone, tell him this privately. Then you will, as they say, do not spill water.
What to do if all the same your friendship has cracked? It is necessary to save her. There are already ways of the sea, it all depends on you and your imagination. If this is a children's friendship, you can exchange bracelets with your names, come up with a new image, and then laugh together, go to dance or aerobics together. Common interests will add to the conversation.
If this is a male friendship, you can go fishing, go to football or just choose the day that you spend in the suto of the men's company.
As for women's friendship, everything is a bit more complicated here. It can last a lifetime and can fly apart in a split second. To make your friendship stronger every year, here are 10 tips:
Do not agree when your friend tells you that she behaved incorrectly or she acted badly. Even if she is right, then she says this only in order to respond in return to your support. To hear the words "All is well, do not worry"
If you went somewhere together, then under no circumstances do not leave a friend. Even if you meet the guy of your dreams.
When you have a friend at a party, know the measure, do not stay too late. And after going home you do not have to rush to the phone to chat with her. Friendship, too, needs rest.
Do not ever use a friend for the sake of self-interest. You can not be friends with a person just because she can borrow a blouse or sit at a cafe at her expense.
Too often do not complain about her problems, sometimes she needs to speak out.
If a girlfriend is friendly with someone other than you, do not take offense at her. This does not mean that she treats you worse, it means that she has a wide and kind soul. And there is enough room for everyone.
Envy - that's what can kill your friendship. Therefore, one should not be jealous of her successes, her relationships with her close people.
Do not ask that she tell you everything. She may have her little secrets. But if it has opened to you, never, and not to whom, do not give out its secret.
Do not criticize her and her life, but at the same time try to prompt and support her, no matter what decision she made.
And most importantly, do not remember it only when you need something from it. Be attentive to her and her problems.
In this article, I tried to help you understand yourself and your relationships with friends, giving 10 tips on how to maintain friendship. You should understand that if you have true and loyal friends, then they must be protected. After all, real friendship, in our life, unfortunately, is a huge rarity. And if you are lucky enough to find it, do not offend it, do not attach it and do not lose it. A real friend is searched for a long time, hard to find and difficult to keep. I wish you to keep friendship for life.