16 Important Rules for Safe Sex

Ironically, for more than a decade, the first association with the phrase "safe sex" most of us call AIDS and condoms. Of course, it is, but it will never be superfluous to recall this. But for sure, few of us know that besides these two words, sexologists invest in such a notion as "safe sex." Perhaps, you will find that the next 16 rules of safe sex are not so serious. But in fact, this is far from the case! Here everything is extremely serious and has no share of sarcasm. By the way, it is appropriate to note the fact that with every new acquaintance, all the same sexologists are advised to start from the bottom line of this list!

1. Try, as long as possible to delay the time and not to enter into a screw connection with a new partner. Remember that full safety is borne by non-fast sex, and abstinence from it until you as best as possible do not recognize a person.
2. It is necessary to strictly limit the number of sexual partners. Remember, the smaller their number, the much lower the risk of catching any infectious disease.
3. Mutually adhering to sexual relations, you practically avoid all the risks side. First of all, it shows that you and your partner have sex only with each other and with whom more. By the way, from this follows the generally accepted pattern: if you are a carrier of infection, then regardless of the types of sexual activity, you can not get sick.
4. You need to know as much as possible about your potential partner. By the way, just do not ask him a lot of questions of a different nature right in the eye. To the great regret, submitted research, people often hide the exact number of sexual partners who were in their lives. As evidenced by one of such studies - 42% of the fair sex and 47% of the strong representatives call a smaller number of partners than there is in reality. According to the same research, they lie more about sex with prostitutes and their own feelings about same-sex love and sexual acts in the state of alcoholic or narcotic intoxication.
5. It is not always necessary to believe that the words spoken by a person regarding his sexual orientation (homosexual or heterosexual) are true. According to observations, more than 30% of the strongest part of mankind, let only once, but had a homosexual experience. And if we believe at once the three-sociological surveys conducted among homosexual men, almost 80% of them had a heterosexual intimate relationship. Four more independent questions told us that 15-25% of homosexuals have full-fledged families. But the latest study, which was conducted by scientists from the Kinzi Institute, showed that almost 75% of lesbians at the age of 18 at least once, but had a heterosexual experience in sex. That's it for this reason, following all these published data, it is not necessary to automatically assume that the woman or male partner belongs to a group that has a low risk level or did not have a homosexual experience.
6. Always avoid ambiguous sexual behavior until you can not be sure that your new sexual partner is not infected with AIDS. It is even easier to engage in sexual intercourse without using precautions (condoms). With a new partner about whom you have little necessary information, at the first sexual intercourse it is better to avoid oral-genital sex and fisting. In other words, it is recommended to avoid all kinds of sexual activity, which are directly related to contacts with sperm, blood and other discharges. It is always worth remembering that AIDS and all other microorganisms that are sexually transmitted can enter the body through the mucous membrane of the throat, vagina or rectum and even through microscopic holes in the surface of the skin.
7. If you have a desire to try anal sex, it is recommended to use a condom with spermicides, which appear in the role of advocates from most of the various infections. At the time of sexual intercourse, unwanted cracks in the skin can form and this will significantly increase the risk of catching the infection. Doctors strongly recommend the use of lubricants that are made on a water basis.
8. Before the upcoming vaginal intercourse it is always worthwhile to use condoms and the same spermicides. It should be remembered that the condom can not help if all infected areas are not closed (for example, located on the scrotum of herpes).
9. At the time of fellatio (oral sex), the condom provides reliable protection even if the partner is infected. Therefore, sometimes it does not hurt when you touch your lips or tongue to the genitals to put on a condom.
10. In case you want to try cunnilingus, the best protective measure can be a special rubber-thin gasket, which is usually used by dentists, trying with its help to protect the sick tooth from getting into drooling.
11. The best way that can enhance the stimulation is usually considered the use of vibrators and other auxiliary sex toys. By the way, this approach can become a safe alternative to individual types of activity and bring pleasure. It is only always necessary to remember about the purity and to prevent lubrication in the process of irritation.
12. Sex without oral-genital activity, as well as sexual or anal penetration (petting) is also very erotic. Its advantage is that sperm and all other excreta can not penetrate the nasliznye shell or skin that is damaged. But here it is worth remembering the cleaning of the hands of both partners.
13. Do not abuse sex in very active places, where there can be a huge number of microbes (public toilet, porches, shops, beach, cheap hotel rooms, etc.).
14. Sexual intercourse can be replaced by the joint acceptance of the soul or of the shower - it is very erotic and at the same time it is safe. But you only need to be sure that your partner or you do not have skin diseases.
15. Not sure about a partner - limit yourself to simple ones. This is also nice and will not alienate the person and keep with him relationship as long as you can not fully verify it.
16. A very important factor in safe sex is frank discussions on intimate topics. Do not hide from your partner all your sexual problems or what you dislike about your sexual relations. Many are embarrassed to discuss such topics with a new person, but it is always worth remembering that if you decide to move to this new level of relationships with this person, you must learn to open up and thereby push him to the same thing.

And at last you want to add, remember that until you show your relationship with a new partner on will be based on exclusive trust and sexual sincerity, you must take responsibility not only for the sake of sex, but also for his sexual health. So in the case of the appearance of a new friend or girlfriend, after all, first of all, we should start with the last item of this list and move slowly, but confidently, in the right direction.

And another thing - do not always start a relationship with sex, sometimes an excellent substitute for sexual intercourse may be your joint fantasies or just a massage. These methods can also bring a lot of pleasures and plus a cow to prepare morally both partners for the very sex.

Many may be surprised, but the so-called "tortoise" development of sexual relations bears a lot of positive aspects, and exclusively sexual intercourse leads to more frequent sex connections. In addition, if you do not regret the allotted time for finding out the preferences of a new partner, you can undoubtedly get much more bliss from sex itself.