These words of the best man in the world do not please you? So he's an owl, and you're a lark. Look for a compromise!
When you met, you did not notice any problems. And they began to live together - and suddenly it was discovered that you have different biorhythms every morning. You adore waking up early in the morning, and your loved one would sleep before dinner, if not for the cruel necessity of getting up for work. From the very morning you need hugs and caresses, but he does not have a thing to do with you, not even before your desires. Or do you have a reverse situation? You sleep and dream only of that nobody touched you so early, but your man is cheerful and full of strength and urges you to wake up.
Let's see, are sex possible - trade-offs between larks and owls?
At first glance, the problem seems far-fetched. After all, if the desire for sex is strong, sleep as a hand removes. However, as a rule, biorhythms are powerless before desire only in the first months after the onset of sexual relations. It is worth the insane passion to subside, and now the clash of customs owls and larks leads to the first insults and misunderstanding: why does not he want me? Does he have someone?
To understand why your lark man is not able to have sex after midnight, try to wake up at four in the morning and discover signs of sexual desire. Most likely, your body will arrange a riot. Also your lover feels after 21-22 hours. His body wants only one thing - rest! Remember this is your condition and take it as a rule not to take offense at a loved one. After all, this behavior dictates his body.
According to physiologists, the best option is if you are a lark, and he is an owl. According to research, most men have a peak of sexual activity in the early morning - from 6 to 9 hours. This is facilitated by physiology. The bladder in the morning presses on the prostate, which acts excitingly on a tightly sleeping man. Moreover, if a sweet loved one sleeps nearby - this finally sets up a partner for erotic fantasies. That's why men are so fond of morning sex and often do not mind if they are woken up for this. But for an owl man there is one important rule: wake up gently!
Sharp movements, loud words, active actions are all not for your man at this hour. He will be ready for sex after a while if you show gentleness, patience and perseverance. Do you want eroticism in the middle of the day? The temptations of a loved one.
If you treat the problem as a creative task that both of you have to solve, then you and your partner have an opportunity to have a good time - in an unusual time for you two! Here's how you think, why do you need a lunch break? Really just to eat and chat with colleagues? Think about how you can use the day hour and a half. And it's not necessary to go home. The car with tinted windows has always been an excellent refuge for passionate lovers. Experiment with tonic drinks: strong coffee and tea will help to wake up or not to fall asleep for a while. It is possible that you have enough to have fun. But remember: this measure should not become permanent.
Competently use the precious time interval between 18 and 21 hours. It is clear that in megacities is the time of traffic jams and general discontent, but who prevents you sometimes from getting out of the usual schedule? At the weekend, break away at full speed. Prepare everything for love games and go with your loved one!
Dinner or sex? For many couples, this issue is often resolved in advance. It is taken for granted that after a hard day's work, you need to prepare a hearty dinner, satisfy your hunger and then calmly do household chores or each other. In fact, a man quickly restores his strength and is soon ready for sex, which can not be said about a woman. Daytime fatigue plus family responsibilities can nullify even the thought of sex. There is an awkward situation: falling from the legs of fatigue, a woman is forced to refuse a partner, although in fact she dreamed of intimacy since the morning! To avoid misunderstandings in desires, it is worth trying though sometimes to change the order of actions - first a light snack, massage, a bath with foam, any relaxation! After that, the desire for sex will be mutual, and the closeness itself is exciting and vibrant. And by the way, dinner will be more delicious!