1. Uncertainty about your attractiveness
In the life of every woman there are periods when she does not feel beautiful. Each of us is a person and everyone experiences attacks of depression and fatigue that do not allow us to look attractive. However, if at the same time women have a lowered self-esteem, then the state of uncertainty can become permanent. A lot of women can not force themselves to strip undressed, give themselves to him to consider, have sex not in the dark, and so on. This uncertainty is especially observed in girls who have only just entered into serious relationships and are not yet close enough with their partner. However, if such thoughts rotate constantly in the head, then this is an excuse to dig into yourself and try to get rid of them.
2. Fear not to get what is desired
Consider the situation when a woman changes her intimate partner. With the former partner everything was excellent in sexual terms, but lacked warmth and mutual understanding. And the current partner is a very remarkable, sensitive and understanding person, but what is he like in sex? What if he loses compared to his former boyfriend? Suddenly, no longer will this kind of sex, what was earlier, with a former partner? In some cases, such thoughts can capture the woman's consciousness so much that she simply refuses to start a new novel because of fear of disappointment!
3. Last negative experience
In those cases where a girl was previously subjected to cruel treatment or violence by a man, she usually finds it extremely difficult to adequately represent the representatives of the stronger sex. More often than not, she looks at all men as a potential threat that can harm her or hurt her. In case of cases it is strongly recommended to go to the center of psychological help, or to a specialist-psychologist, since only a few are able to cope with such a problem without outside help.
4. Fear that this relationship is one time
Fears of this kind are most often found in girls who have a rich life experience of relationships. It is not uncommon for the history of women who are successful, attractive and generally have the whole range of merits, but at the same time with which the men for some reason do not want to build relationships, disappearing within one to two weeks of getting acquainted. It is difficult to determine the general cause, but it is not ruled out that this fear contributes to a great degree to this state of affairs.
5. Education, forcing a woman to be passive
When relations are just beginning to develop, a woman should show modesty - men appreciate it. However, this does not mean at all that a shady must necessarily be in the future, it is absolutely normal to show passion for your partner.
6. Permanent employment at work
Perhaps this will sound trite, but sex, like any other type of activity, requires a lot of time and effort. That is, to go into bed with a partner, a woman should not be tired utterly. And if your work exhausts you so that when you come home, you just fall on the bed, wanting only to get some sleep, then maybe you should think about what is more important for you, to move forward on work or to give time to your family and your relationships.
7. Will I become pregnant or will I be sick?
This psychological problem is often the result of a negative experience in the life of a woman when, as a result of non-compliance with the precautionary measure, for one reason or another, she became infected with menses. At the same time, sometimes this fear can be taken from out of nowhere, not allowing a woman to enjoy sex. In such cases, most often with any precautionary measures, a woman continues to stay in suspense, whether she will become pregnant or not become infected, which can lead to such a result as a complete rejection of sexual relations.