The question of what and what to say after sex at least once there was almost every person. It is known that the beautiful half of mankind likes ears. It is important for women to hear how beautiful she is, including in bed. Words of love and compliments are relevant not only to sexual pleasures, but also after. It is important for a woman to hear from a man that she is also welcome, on her self-esteem. But what about men? What is important to them? In bed, men have to spend more energy and energy than women, respectively, the main thing is that after the pleasure received, it is a sound sleep and a delicious dinner. But this does not mean that the opinion of a woman does not matter for the stronger sex. We are all people with their complexes, secrets and emotions. Therefore, compliments to men are as important as women, because everyone wants to realize that in bed he is inimitable. It will also not be superfluous for the improvement of the evaluation, and the portion of positive emotions that will eventually spread to your partner.
Communicating in bed is necessary, and the latter pair goes to the limit of the sexual framework and the rules that are indicated by the sexual partners. If your partner is a bit cynical, he is unlikely to appreciate the various romantic attributes in the form of a polylar with candles and rose petals. Also, gentle conversations on the topic "how long I waited for when we will be together" will not make a proper impression on him. Most likely, such a man will decide that you are too naive, or just not quite out of adolescence.
During a love affair with a cynical man, you should not ask him to do it this way or that. With him it's better to immediately prioritize, identify your desires and what is called to do business. After the amusements, the cynic is not at all against communication, the only thing that should be remembered is the partner, no romantic conversations, ahov and sighs. Such a man will not be able to support such conversations, for the simple reason that he considers them to be crooked and insincere.
If your partner is an incurable romantic, communicating on sublime themes, both before love comforts, and after that, not only is not contra-indicated, but even on the contrary, it will be very welcome. He will not only listen and delight in listening to the story of how long you've been waiting for him, but will also support her with no lesser leverage.
Do not forget to mention his tenderness and attentiveness in bed, tell me how pleasant his care is to you. Men like romance like when next to him there is a weak and trembling girl next to whom he feels stronger and more courageous.
The only thing about which not to talk with such a man is his past, perhaps, not less romantic, relationship. And also try to return as delicately as possible from the clouds to the perishable earth with its routine and routine.
If it so happened that the volition is next to you was a man with complexes, there are two options for the development of events, or you run away from him and find a more suitable instance. Or with all sorts of zeal you are ready to close your eyes to all his shortcomings and misses, zealously do not pay attention to his indecision, awkwardness and even are ready for occasional bruises, as a result of zealous assaults on his part.
If to you on a way will meet the inveterate bachelor, try not to show in relation to not own feelings, and at all do not share with it the plans navasha the happy happy future. In the best case, he simply does not appreciate the tingling, and at the worst he will run away, deciding that you are too encroaching on his precious person.
Sometimes it turns out that events are developing too rapidly, and now a new acquaintance has proved so that to designate him as simply an acquaintance is not quite right. But, despite all this, if you are not so long familiar with a man it makes sense to remember some rules:
- Do not particularly delve into the stories of their past suitors. A number of men after the love of comfort like accidentally start talking about whether you had a lot of lovers before me. Every sensible woman knows the answer to such questions, "who is not the first one who has our second."
- proceeding from all that was said above, it would be very logical if the woman in turn does not ask the man about his past adventures and passions. Now he is near you, why bring him to mind about someone else?
- you do not have to start begging right after sex, and no matter what you ask for: a birthday present or a diamond ring for the anniversary of your future wedding. In any case, a man can take it as a need to pay you for the pleasure.
- and, finally, if after a night, a day or an hour of love with you a man starts to leave, do not make a tragedy of it with shouts, reproaches and tears, unless you want him to leave you forever.