So, is it necessary to give an expensive gift to a loved one? This question is asked by many women for several reasons. The first of them is that expensive presents are meant for people who do not feel what we feel for them. Indeed, it often happens that a woman sees a man in a loved one, and he is just a friend. In this case, many people think about whether it is worth to give him something special or you can do with a standard presentation. In fact, gifts should always be presented only with a pure heart. And it does not matter how expensive they are. The main thing is how much soul and attachment to the person in them is invested. That's why, if you choose a present for your beloved, first of all decide for yourself whether you want him to understand your feelings. Remember that it is inherent in any person to notice in gifts how much a birthday person is important for the giver. If gifts are the same type, and sometimes meaningless, then the person does not try to bring with them the joy. He's just trying to give something, because that's how it is. If you do not want the object of attention even accidentally suspected of your feelings, then it is worth giving such a present. But if you want to at least hint to the beloved about how much he cares for you, then choose what he likes, appreciates and admires.
Presenting such gifts, you must always remember that they are free of charge. Nobody can promise you that the object of attention will want to present the same presents to your person. Therefore, before you buy something exclusive for a loved one, decide if you can live peacefully, knowing that he, most likely, will not be able to repay you with such a coin. If you do not care and the main motive for buying is really the desire to make a person happy, then safely acquire something that will cause him excitement and awe. Otherwise, better abandon the idea, then not to get angry and blame the guy for being greedy and ungrateful, because he is not going to give something like that.
By the way, you should always be cautious with gifts for a man who does not feel the same strong feelings for you as you do to him. The fact is that there are young people who simply use the feelings of others and, after receiving a couple of such gifts, begin to be capricious, take offense and extort again and again. In this case, because of your romantic feelings, it will be too difficult for you to refuse and the guy will simply start receiving everything that he wants without compensation. If you see that a person will never use you for mercenary purposes, and a gift will bring him joy that will be better for you than any response presentation, then get what you think is necessary. Of course, for expensive gifts it is impossible to buy love. But it is precisely these presents that people choose based on the dreams and desires of people that are part of that concern that is very pleasant for every normal person, and in some cases it awakens romantic feelings. The main thing - do not overdo with such gifts, so that for a young man it does not turn into a routine routine. Remember that everything is good that has a measure.
It is quite another matter when the question relates to the person you love, with whom you meet. In this case, you still need to pay attention to whether he gives you gifts. Of course, this is far from being the main criterion of relations. And to give something that is equivalent to the amount donated by you, is also not forced. It's about something else: about how much the guy is paying attention to you. Any gift, presented by a loved one, expresses his concern and attitude to you. The point here is not even in the amount, but in exclusivity, in how much it coincides with your desires. Therefore, if you want to give a dear dear gift, still think about what he does for you. And if you notice that you are constantly trying to please your partner in the family, you come up with original presents and try to please him in every way, and he takes it for granted and does not even try to do something in return, it is still necessary to analyze the situation and decide, Does your behavior negatively affect the way you make a guy from gigolo? Many women are ready literally to turn inside out for an expensive person and give the last money to make him happy. So you can do it only if you get something in return. Selflessness, this, of course, is very good, but still you need to have boundaries and not go beyond what is permissible. A young man is unlikely to appreciate a gift if you spend on it the entire family budget. Also, it's not a fact that he will be too empathetic to learn that you have spent all your salary and are now hungry and do not have the opportunity even to pay for an apartment and buy yourself some bread. Therefore, when choosing a gift for a loved one, never forget about yourself.
Of course, it is very pleasant when the most dear person in the world eyes are blessed with joy, but, believe me, you will not be satisfied with this joy and you will not be able to get dressed in it. Therefore, before you select something very beautiful and exclusive for your loved one, calculate your budget and determine how much this gift can hit it. If embezzlement turns out to be critical, give up your idea, no matter how you would like to put it into practice. Always remember that bringing happiness to people is fine, but doing it to your detriment is stupid, and even a little pitiful. Therefore, try to make sure that the gift brings only joy to everyone and does not cause damage to anyone.