Your child tears to pieces and disassembles everything that falls under the arm, breaks toys, destroys the towers from the designer, presses sandstones from the sand. Parents do not need to panic about this, about the child's propensity for destruction and manifestation of aggression. How to deal with this?
A child breaks toys
Children behave this way not because they want to do something to spite and annoy adults. A child, getting into the world of things, wants to understand how this or that thing works, he wants to know what's inside. He becomes an explorer, the child likes to experiment with things. He just wants to figure out what the toys are made of. You can give an inquisitive child an old camera or a broken watch, let them disassemble. The child must disassemble things under your supervision, because these things can have small details, and they should not fall into the mouth of small researchers.
For such children there are many good designers, collapsible toys. It can be large blocks, with which you can build caves and fortresses, high mountains, build towers and mountains. It is good to throw inflatable and rag balls. This child can be given skittles. The task of parents to relieve the tension of the baby. This can be done with the help of plasticine, salted dough, clay. And if you allow the baby to participate in baking cake and he will knead the dough, the child's joy will not be the limit.
Different designers exist to assemble and disassemble them. If you are not afraid of dirt, you can cover the floor with polyethylene, put a bath with sand and play it with molds, sovochkami and so on. Give the baby to break the cakes and pies, molded from the sand, he will do so with such pleasure. And in winter there is so much snow around that you can frolic. In the autumn, you can arrange leaf falls, if you throw up colored leaves. In this case, you need to explain that a broken toy can not be returned.
Often the baby breaks toys and gets frustrated with everything that happened. No need to scold the child. Toys should be chosen carefully, it is better to buy a high-quality and expensive machine than a few cheap, but fragile. Each kid passes in his life such a stage, when he throws, breaks and tears toys. It's useless to scold a child, you just set it up against yourself, and he will never stop playing toys. Switch the attention of the child and direct his energy to good deeds, and then the child will cease to do harm and will give good.
The reasons why children break toys:
Curiosity
The kid at an early age knows the mechanisms governing the world. This also applies to toys, often toddlers, dismantling a toy, are eager to find out what's inside. This applies to moving and talking dolls, radio-controlled helicopters and so on.
Lack of parental attention
Modern parents do not have time to pay attention to their children, are very busy with work and pay off expensive gifts from them. But all this does not replace the child's communication with their parents. And breaking toys, the child thus provides the attention of parents and relatives. Children understand that such behavior attracts the attention of relatives, even if this behavior is bad.
Process of the game
When a child plays story games, he identifies himself with the characters. Therefore, he wants to "kill" the evil dragon, wolf and so on. A "kill" a toy can only be destroyed. Here the child is given an example of computer games and television.
The need to throw out aggression
Feeling anger and resentment, the child looks for where you can "put" the negative emotions. Often parents, when they are overwhelmed by aggression, shout at children, the child also copies the behavior of adults and does not find another way out, shouts at toys, smashes and breaks them.
It is difficult to teach a child under the age of seven to be careful about toys so that the child does not break toys, but the breakdown of toys can be minimized and the child should not be allowed to behave in a similar way. You need to give the baby such toys, which he will take care of and love. Such concepts as love and care the kid is able to absorb from 4 years.