Tantra is a whole philosophical system that originated in India many thousands of years ago. Tantric sex is only one aspect of the teachings of Tibetan Buddhists. But in the sixties, when yoga and the sexual revolution became fashionable in the West, tantric sex and neotantra appeared. These disciplines are concerned with the study of the physical possibilities of the body, the attainment of divine pleasure through the fusion of man and woman. Because of this, the lessons of ancient Indian science may seem overly frank and sexual. But if they suddenly seem trite to you, you can safely leave. You do not have to rape yourself by studying with an unprofessional teacher, it can only do harm. Books on the theory of Tantra have not been canceled yet, and you can practice at home, alone with your loved one.
Such associations arise in the case of Tantra . But group sex and Tantra are incompatible concepts. Yes, during the love session in the room and there may be several couples, but they never exchange partners, only doing their half. After all, relationships with a loved one are above all in Tantra. In neotantra, it is true, everything is possible: both the exchange of partners and sex with several people, but this is already a personal choice of everyone. To force to such things no one has the right. There is no place for vulgarity and debauchery in Tantra. The sex of Tibetan Buddhists implies not only sexual contact, but also the fusion of souls, the hearts of lovers. Therefore, caresses in him are long and sensual, they are not concentrated around the genitals, but cover the entire body. The movements in tantric sex are also leisurely, "with taste."
All who are propagandists of such an unusual kind of sex for us - tantric - are altruists, because the main thing here is not to reach your orgasm, but to please the partner. In addition, the longer a man is inside a woman, the more vital energy he can let in to compensate for the force he will lose during ejaculation. Such a love session can last from two to ten hours.
It can resemble an erotic massage , include unusual postures, breathing exercises or even stretch marks. But the main thing that makes up tantric sex is full concentration on the partner. In fact, the sexual partner in Tantra is the incarnated deity with which you enter into sexual intercourse. By the way, in tantric sex, the deity is supposed to admire, give himself completely to this admiration and not for a second not to doubt his ethereal origin. During tantric sex, both partners get rid of complexes and, that these days are important, significantly increase self-esteem to each other. If you learn to achieve the same harmony with your partner, in your life there will be much less disappointment and dissatisfaction in bed, "harm" and "jealousy" will disappear, and they will be replaced by a common feeling of mutual love and understanding.
In addition to the emotional component , tantric sex has an amazing healing and healing power. People who advocate this technique, almost never turn to doctors. After all, they have their own method of therapy: more pleasant than tablets.
First of all, you need to learn well, feel your body and the body of your partner. To do this, you can practice sensations, try to feel the material from which the thing was made, smell - find the right flower or fragrance of perfume, and at the concert - listen to only one instrument from the whole orchestra. This is difficult at first, but in time you will succeed.
After this stage is completed, you can start a session of tantric sex. You and your partner will need to single out one day only for each other. There should not be bright objects or loud noises around, and it's generally better to forget about a TV or a music center in such a situation. Although you can include unobtrusive music for relaxation or popular now recording sounds of wildlife. During sex, you should not be distracted from each other, remember: it is important to focus on the partner itself, and not on sex.