So, how to make the guys respect you - let's think about this issue together. For this it is necessary to understand what exactly causes disrespect, what is happening and why you are not considered equal. Every guy sees a woman or an object of attention, or a friend, or a combination of both. In order for a beloved guy to respect, it is best to refer to the latter option. In this case, a young man sees in you not only an attraction, but also a mind, erudition and many other qualities that he values in the guys. What can I do to make him realize that you are not just a wrapper, but a woman with whom you can talk about everything.
In fact, it's not so difficult to make a guy appreciate you not only as a beautiful cover. The main thing is that you know that you are really erudite for him. Many women make the mistake of believing that a guy will adore her only for beautiful eyes. Of course, it will, but not for long. In order to make relations long-term, it is necessary to apply strength, remaining interesting not only externally, but also internally.
So, what actions and decisions need to be taken so that a loved one respects you, and does not lead him like a beautiful doll?
For this, it is necessary to match it intellectually. Every young man will rejoice, knowing that his woman is admired not only because she has a beautiful figure, but also an extraordinary intellect. Therefore, if you see that you do not know and do not understand something, try to understand it. Do not do everything yourself, because some things are really hard to understand on their own. Believe me, it will be pleasant for a normal person to explain to you what you do not know, but for him it is a skate. First, it will be another opportunity to feel like a strong and intelligent man, and, secondly, he will respect you for being able to recognize that you are not a know-it-all, but at the same time trying to understand and master new areas that were for you before this unknown.
Many men respect women who understand the so-called "male" spheres of activity. It can be anything: machines, programming, mountaineering. If you really are an Ass in something like that - respect is guaranteed to you. It's just necessary to show your knowledge in time, but do not press men with intellect. A clever woman and a feminist, who by all appearances shows that the male sex is much lower than herself - these are completely different things. Never forget this and do not bend the stick.
Of course, guys respect not only for intelligence. There are many more ways with which you can earn men's respect. For example, young people love strong and wise women. Therefore, one never needs to arrange hysteria with the guys. This causes them only irritation and leads to disappointment. Whatever the situation, always try to think soberly. It's good to argue, give advice, but do not impose your own opinion on anyone. Guys love and respect women who do not whine, do not be capricious, but try to do everything to the best of their abilities, without turning into muslin ladies.
In addition, for a man it is very important that a woman loves and respects herself. Even if you know that you are not a top model, you should never talk about it to young people, complain about your appearance and tell that you do not need anyone. This way of respect is never exactly achieved. First of all, you should know about your own merits and always emphasize them. Men rarely respect beauties who do not shine with intelligence. Of course, they are interested in them, but rather as an object for sex, rather than as a companion of life. But they are very respectful of the girls who are able to emphasize their dignity and hide their shortcomings, while remaining simple in communication and self-confident.
Yes, it is worth noting that men have always had a supportive attitude towards company ladies who do not behave coyly, trying to emphasize their correctness, excessive fragility and impressionability. Many of them need to see a woman in the woman, at least from time to time, who can understand their interests, will not be afraid of difficulties and will not constantly remind them that she is a girl, and therefore everyone must help her.
Men respect women for the fact that they can be themselves. Always remember that compliments, sent to your beauty, are not always an excuse to consider that you are respected. Guys can admire the appearance, but at the same time talk about how low you are intellectually developed, and that you have absolutely nothing to do, except to evaluate the appearance and have sex.
The reason to believe that you are respected, can be the positive words of the guys about the strength of your character, intelligence, understanding. Men respect those who can really find a common language with them and understand their problems. Especially these qualities help in the case when you want to make friends with your young man's friends. If the girl is not frightened of "male" topics, she can support the conversation and understand the interests of the guys - she is respected.
Well, the loved one will respect you in the event that you learn to be calm and balanced, you can give the necessary advice, but you will never blindly assert that your opinion is the only correct one, you can really understand it and take interest in its hobbies, and not just pretend that you want to know something about it. Then he will see in you that woman whom you can trust, which you can love, and, of course, respect.