Honestly, do you have such sins in sex? Each of them is a potential threat to your intimate life, but do not panic - all of them can be prevented. If you want to become his best mistress, not to mention getting the most pleasure yourself, give due consideration to our recommendations.
Mistake 1: Disgust
Most people have the strongest orgasms with oral sex. However, it is obvious that denying a partner in oral sex is an unforgivable mistake. A woman who jumps aside a meter, if a drop of sperm dares to land not where necessary, will automatically lead the men's 'List of Women I Will Never Sleep Again'. How can a man approach a man with a wrinkled nose and a curved face?
Overcome this
If you are worried about the smell - about it or about your own - pounce on it right after the shower. You will avoid problems with nausea if you use a pose when you are in control of the process (for example, when a man is standing in front of you and you are sitting on a bed). As for sperm swallowing, most men will not mind if you do not, until you give them a choice. If this is your case, try to move a little and continue the stimulation with your hand, so that the sperm hits your or his body. Yes, someone will get dirty, but sex is always connected with this. And the sooner you will accept the fact that when you have sex, you sweat and get dirty, and the sheets crumble and also get dirty, so much the better for you.
Mistake 2: Fear of Experiments
Does your partner want you to dress like a waitress? Eat a piece of cake from his navel? Play a doctor? Do not give in to your usual reaction - fear, and, instead of asking: 'What planet are you from?', Think how you can make his fantasies come true. We all have different rhythms, feelings and desires, so why not make it pleasant? Just because 'ordinary! the person does not look like he wants it? Who cares?! Until no one is injured, physically or emotionally, and this does not become an obsession (then turning into a fetish), be active and active. Nothing so quickly kills sex life, like a partner who refuses to go beyond the zone of her sexual comfort. If you refuse every time it offers something new, you send a clear message: Your pleasure and needs are not important to me. Condemn him when he offers something 'bad' or 'nasty', and you can guarantee that he will never again offer anything interesting.
Overcome this
Take this slogan as a note: 'If I do not consider immoral what my partner is proposing, but I simply can not imagine this, I will try it'. If you, rather, prophesy the tunnel than try it, try to intercept the spirit of what he offers - games by roles, obscene expressions, etc. - but with some changes. Or just suggest another experiment, so (a) he will not feel offended, (b) you expand your sexual horizons.
Mistake 3: Ignorance of my own body
Most women reach their first orgasm alone, because, unlike men, our orgasm is not so easy to get. While he struggles with himself not to have an erection on the train, or desperately counting from 500 to 1 in the classroom, in order to avoid embarrassment, the girls quietly do the absolutely opposite things. We lock ourselves in a dark room, trying to detect the 'buttons' that need to be pressed, to understand how to do this, before our roommate breaks in. Terrible? Yes. But, after all, it's worth it: 95% of women who masturbate can achieve orgasm in this way. By the way, if you are a woman who has never masturbated, there is a very high probability that you have never had an orgasm.
Overcome this
If you do not achieve the orgasm you want to achieve, try to understand the cause. Experiment with various ways of masturbation, by touching, until you find the most pleasant and suitable for you and your partner. Be careful during sex. Remember what you like and what does not. Think about your former lovers, fantasize about new ones until you are sure that you have a clear map of your individual preferences in sex. Also, drop these stupid expectations that you do not have to work on your sex life. We all want to hope that good sex 'will appear by itself', in a magical way. But the reality is that, being 6 years in a relationship with a man, you can feel the same sexual hunger, as well as 6 months after dating. Why do we accept the fact that our faces and bodies grow old over time, and we need to work to keep them in good shape, while still believing that our sexual and personal life does not require any effort from either side ?
Understand that you must work on this, and you will have better and lasting results.
Mistake 4: Lack of initiative
If you are always waiting for an initiative from a partner, you lose a lot. Your energy and initiative can be very exciting. The initiative in sex, if it is unusual for you, can wake up even a deep sleeper desire. Finding your partner 'off guard', you will enjoy that he is very pleased.
Overcome this
Take the first step as often as possible - continue to have sex, even if you are not too strong and want. Human beings are habits: our bodies love a certain regime, because it simplifies life in a complex world. Every day, eat the waffle after breakfast, and after three or four days you will buy and there is a wafer automatically. Your body will wait for this sweet and harmful thing (and your hips will be wider and wider, but this does not apply to the case). Having established a certain cycle and regularly receiving orgasms, your body will get used to wanting its norm. It is worth pushing yourself - if there is no better reason, then consider that you need to strengthen your libido.
Mistake 5: You are easily confused
We all went through this. One minute you groan and groan uncontrollably, and then suddenly start: shall we say, to publish less erotic sounds? And who, including the light, did not find that menstruation had started earlier, and that the bed looks like a battlefield?
Overcome this
Confusing, but funny sexual stories a huge amount - and it's not just that. We are dealing with something that makes us be closer and more frank with each other, which means that the probability that you will be separated from each other becomes less and less. The smell from the mouth, the smell of the body, the parts of your body that begin to "speak your language" - there are so many potential "catastrophes" that you would like to avoid when you are together in the same room to always look attractive: Forget about it right now .