Rich man and poor woman

Can a fairy tale about Cinderella come true in our time? Is it possible that a girl who does not have a high social status, without rich parents and, not being, for example, a model, to meet a beautiful prince on a white horse? And not just to meet, but to become his princess. Now these princes themselves, so to speak, say that more of them take to their wives or want to take a girl of this type, like Cinderella. And this is not a fairy tale at all. Of course, not all wealthy men think so, but it's still a fact. They believe that it is in simple girls and women that this purity and sincerity in relationships and in life in general is hidden. They are not spoiled by a lot of money and attention, they value their family and love their husband, not his money. After all, a girl from a wealthy family is brought up to be faithful, loyal, loving, disinterested, wise and giving, and not taking a wife. Such a woman will be grateful to her chosen one for the fact that he made her life a fairy tale, and will not start a lover, like spoiled girls from his circle. And to girls-majors are inherent features such as hypocrisy, hypocrisy, duplicity, insincerity, selfishness, etc. At the same time, they all, having non-poor parents, consider the wealthy men to be "golden bags". Is it really possible that a rich man and a poor woman meet and marry?

Of course! Why are wealthy men no longer seriously interested in glamorous girls? The answer is simple. Such women do not know how to wait. They have developed some confidence that after the first date they should give gifts, and not simple and not cheap. Gradually turning into a hunter, they frighten off men, because they feel that they are treated as a booty, a trophy that is needed for selfish purposes. And, as you know, the main thing in a couple should be a man, especially if he has a high social status. From this it follows that such men will choose themselves, with whom they will be, and with whom not, most likely, with such a predator, a man will not want to continue the relationship. But, to be with him was a beautiful woman, a simpleton, it's quite another matter. In such relations he will dominate and make decisions. He will be a beloved and loving person. Although, of course, not all rich men hold such an opinion. After all, a modest girl will give preference only to a serious businessman, far from public life, who himself has achieved everything, and who is not interested in "mazhorki." But the same "majors" who have low intelligence, there is a need for a girl from the cover, from which he can go to clubs and parties so that he can boast of it and increase his self-esteem in the eyes of the surrounding mass of people.

Many wealthy and held men are looking for a wife not spoiled beauty, who "live" in restaurants, a simple woman who can sincerely love. To fall in love not for a fat wallet, not for the opportunities that her chosen one can give her, not for his acquaintances and connections, but for his essence. For the fact that he loves her, appreciates, hugs and kisses, for his depth of his eyes and a kind smile. Fashion for "model girls" is already exhausting itself. After all, no clothes and jewelry on it can decorate her soul and mind. And these men want that next to them was one that can support any conversation and with which you can be as you are, without masks and pathos. And girls from wealthy families live with innate permissiveness, they do not understand the true side of marriage and relationships. Do not understand what to be "married" means to be "for the husband"! Successful men in business seek modest and smart women who will be a friend, not looking at them, but in the same direction as them.

Marriage of a rich man and a poor woman is possible. It's just that they often do not have enough time to find the one they dream about. Yes, as a matter of fact, such meetings happen not according to the planned scenario, however, as usual. It can happen when you do not expect it. For example, in a small cafe, just on the street, in an office or even in a hospital. In general, this can happen anywhere.

But such marriage unions have one problem - this is the inequality of marriage. After all, a man who sought everything himself, got used to the fact that he must control everything, control and command everything. This he can bring to the family. In order for this not to happen, psychologists recommend that such relationships be built on an equal footing. Create an alliance of equal people. You do not have to be shy about defending your point of view, and you need to do this gently and unobtrusively. After all, such men are often categorical, and do not want to accept anybody's arguments and arguments. Psychologists say that in such cases, you need to use this principle of constructing your speech, when your argument starts with the pronoun "I", but by no means "you." In this case, you talk about your feelings, not shifting your problems to the shoulders of your partner. You can not wait for the moment when your grievances or discontent will accumulate inside you and reach the boiling point. Try to talk about them with your loved one as they appear.

It is important to remember that if you want to build a serious relationship with a rich man, then you must grow as a person. A smart and successful businessman does not need a doll to brighten up the interior. You need to do yourself, get a good education, be aware of the events in the country and the world, be interested in the interests of your chosen one.

A rich young man and a poor girl can also divorce. And very often it happens that a woman after a divorce remains without means of subsistence. Therefore, dear ladies, you must earn a living and not be completely dependent on your husband. You must be confident in the future, in that you will be able to feed yourself and dress, if that.