Because it is you who are the dream that has become for him a reality, a fairy tale that dilutes his gray everyday life with colored paints. After all, no one wants to just be an intermediate step, a step in life, an unreal memories and time spent, at a time when every minute is valued with an ideal girl and the mention of it is bright, sincere and clear.
But what needs to be done to become the most ideal and beloved for him? Maybe there is some algorithm, some tips? Or become the best girl for a beloved and adored guy - then something from the realm of fantasy and everything depends only on the will of the case? In principle, I think that even if everything is in the hands of Destiny, it will not be lost from you if you try to do something for your relationship, change yourself for the better, change somewhere, so that the guy falls in love with you again and again . It is necessary to become such a girl-dream, ephemeral, subtle, mysterious. Be for him a fragile, but reliable support.
But now all the words about the ideal girl, the best and beloved girl in the world, while they themselves seem fabulous, but to become her, really the best, it seems, is an incredibly difficult task. In fact, it is not so; The desired result can be obtained in a very simple way. There is only one simple rule: make him happy!
A girl who knows how to give her boyfriend happiness and is "the same": special and desirable for him. The question arises: what is needed to do this? How to give it, this is a mysterious happiness?
First: Respect him and trust him. Every guy wants to feel like your support and give you the opportunity to feel yourself "like a stone wall." He wants to know that you trust him and consider him strong and brave, and also admire him. Never humiliate him and consider his opinion, listen carefully to his thoughts - and you too deserve his trust.
Second: Let him realize that you need him and that he is always desired. Do not constantly criticize him for a beer belly, wrinkling his nose and recalling that there is such a place as a "gym", and to shake the house press would be, by the way ... and in general you suddenly wanted it to look like this one - on the cover of the magazine. Better let your boyfriend feel always attractive and special for you, as well as necessary. Let him help you somehow and prove to him that you need him.
Third: be honest with him and frank. This does not mean that you have to tell him in detail how you spent each day, and at the first opportunity to share with him all his secrets, comment on every little thing, say what you think for one reason or another. Everyone knows a stereotype that a girl must remain mysterious, and also the purpose behind which a man should hunt and conquer her, like a princess. But, there is no one who needs constant forbidden things, strange, hidden ambiguous phrases, a proud cold unapproachable look. You do not moose, that you are constantly hunted, much more valuable will be simple honesty and the necessary openness.
Fourth: The value of his friends and parents. It is known that friends for a guy - it's sacred, and male friendship - stronger than many chains. It is not necessary to join his environment and become "his boyfriend" for his friends. It is enough to understand a young person and treat his friends well, and never to humiliate him before them, and if there is an opportunity - on the contrary - to present.
Fifth: Watch for yourself. The eye is pleased with the beautiful girl. The fact that he has already chosen you, proves that he is you and believes that you are beautiful and interesting for him. But this does not mean that now you have to stop watching yourself, ostensibly because he has to get used to you the way you are. Having a good view, you will make it pleasant not only to yourself, increasing your self-esteem, but especially the guy. Each of them to some extent is a connoisseur of beauty. So go ahead for the beauty and save the world!
Spend more time with him, which, incidentally, can be varied and very interesting. For example, you can walk in the park, climb the highest peak in your city, visit a new cafe that has just opened, or arrange a picnic, taking each other off for a funny video that you will remember for a long time with a laugh. Relationships can be developed with fascination, making romantic or creative gifts to each other: writing each other a letter, composing a verse or a story about you and your friends, drawing a map to the treasure, which in the end, of course, that you will be.
Do not take the relationship only as a routine and a duty, because, in fact, you can discover a lot of interesting things and feelings, make each day held together, special. You should also remember the sense of humor that men really appreciate. This does not mean that you should be a jester for him, who never sad and laughs at every word he says, without missing the opportunity to make him laugh to the abdominal cramps. But tragic images are now also not appreciated, and whoever wants to spend time with the girl-calamity, who constantly complains about something.
Learn to be yourself, appreciate your individuality and choose the golden mean in everything. Then there is no reason to worry because of their behavior. And the last, but most important: love it. Love him and let him feel that he is loved - and then you will experience real happiness. After all, it's not at all necessary to be an ideal, it's enough to be yourself, not forgetting about some simple truths ...
Here such here should be the ideal girl for the man: loving, patient and understanding. And to become such a woman for a beloved man is not at all difficult - there would be a desire!