Many people think that a strong woman does not need tenderness and care. In fact, this is not so. She also wants to find love, just does not allow herself to relax. Therefore, she can not show feelings to a guy and act like a lady who knows how to do it, specializing in flirting and seduction.
The question is whether a strong woman can find her love, worries many ladies who are used to going through life on their own, but do not want this to happen forever. So, how can we make sure that the strong love of such girls is mutual.
Yes, it is worth noting that their love is always strong. These ladies do not think anything at all. Therefore, if they really love, they love madly and with all their heart. But this love, for some reason, is not always appreciated by men. What is wrong with this woman and how to fix it? Firstly, such a girl can not allow a guy to be a real man. She does not do it on purpose. Just a strong girl was used to solve all the problems herself. She does not wait for the guy to find time and desire to do something for her. Even if he wants and has the opportunity to do something, the woman already simply does not notice it. She does not try to find time to help her boyfriend. This lady knows that she will do her best on her own. Of course, in many respects she is right, only men do not like this. They want to be knights and saviors. And when the girl does not need this at all, they are frightened and repelled by such behavior. It produces inferiority complex in men. Therefore, the guys knowingly and subconsciously try to avoid such girls. They do not want a woman next to them to do everything for them and better than them. If the guy is completely satisfied with this state of affairs, there is nothing good in this either. Most likely, this young man is Alphonse and a rag. He likes when the lady takes care of him and solves all problems. It's pointless to build relationships with such men because they just use strong women.
In order to find love with a normal man, a woman should remember that she is weak and vulnerable. Do not stop riding horses and walk on burning huts. This is the lot of the guys and only them. The girl should favorably accept their knightly gestures and pretend that she would never have managed without the help of a man.
Another problem of strong women - they always take the first step. Such ladies do not languish with emotions, but simply do what they want. But, unfortunately, this does not always lead to a positive ending. Often, in a relationship everything happens the other way around. If the girl first calls and writes, the first confesses in love and suggests starting to meet, the man, again, feels strangled. He has the impression that everything is being decided for him. And this guys do not like the most. That's why they repel these women and try not to develop relations with them. Most often in a strong lady, the guys do not see a girl, but a friend. Unfortunately, women themselves push them to such thoughts. They behave as men usually do. Often, strong women know how to drink, can swear with mate, discuss stupid ladies, do not like talking about clothes and cosmetics. They always say everything right in the face and do not particularly worry about the man's psyche. By the way, the fact that such girls are not obsessed with clothes does not mean that they do not know how to choose good things and dress nicely. It's just that such ladies do not talk about this constantly, they do not put their appearance at the head of everything.
Such girls are excellent "friends" and "brothers". With them you can drink beer, discuss the girls and not worry that the lady will not understand. But it is this understanding that leads to the fact that the girl no longer sees the object for sympathy. She becomes her man and this stereotype is extremely difficult to understand. Therefore, if a strong woman is annoyed by the fact that the guys treat her like her brother, she must learn to react to certain things as befits a girl. Of course, you should not play the plays and get offended with every word. But, also do not need to laugh loudly at jokes, degrading girls, constantly talk about the fact that the ladies do not have brains, and only normal men can understand everything, and also call themselves a guy. If the girl does not have femininity, they will adore her as a friend, but they will never see her as a potential wife. Because marrying one's own friend is wrong and abnormal. Namely, these thoughts are sitting in the subconscious of young people. That's why, when dealing with young people, a woman needs to restrain herself and not allow herself to decide everything herself and behave as the guys lead. Of course, at first it will be difficult, but, with time, each person gets used to and already does not notice what has always had to be controlled. By the way, once it is worth noting that no one forces strong women to change themselves or wear a mask. Simply, it is necessary to learn to understand where to show your strength, and where - weakness. Ladies by nature inherited intuition, which only need to learn how to use. If you are careful and listen to yourself, watching men, you can always understand at what point you need to show weakness and tenderness, and when it is worth recalling your strength of character and endurance.
Men love those who can make them fight and conquer, but they will never give up in trouble and will be able to protect themselves from many troubles with their wisdom and love. Strength and weakness, masculinity and femininity, calmness and emotionality should harmoniously unite in a woman. If something is missing, the guys feel it and the percentage that he will fall in love with such a girl is getting smaller and smaller. That's why a strong woman needs to find the strength and wisdom in herself to learn how to be weak and feminine, just like any real man needs.