Jealousy is contradictory
Each person is individual - this is for no one a secret, and each interprets for himself the concept of freedom of relations. It often happens that for you a certain act is unthinkable and passes any boundaries, and for another it is quite normal things and he himself, perhaps, also acts. The same with the notion of treason. For you, betrayal may even be a smile or a gentle welcome, for another it is insignificant and he will not even turn to it. Do not make hasty conclusions and do not inflate the situation, it is best to climb up and find out what a gesture means to a person. If it so happens that your chosen one likes by nature to please other women with compliments, you will have to accept it or part with it.
Jealousy is inherent in selfishness
Many people are used to living on the principle of "I, me, mine," and everything they see around them must necessarily belong to them, or not belong. Such is human nature. We chaste into extremes. By the way a person communicates, you can determine how much the self is selfish. For example, "I need" instead of "could you" or "I want to go somewhere" instead of "you want to go somewhere." Selfishness also concerns a love relationship. For example, if people start dating, one of them necessarily considers the other to be their property, not taking into account anything. But this is wrong, the world is not a market and one must fight for love, not buy. If you think about it, we do not belong to ourselves.
If you constantly want to be close to your loved one, it's not scary, but even good. But your favorite is not a keychain and you can not put it in your purse and carry it all the time. It should be borne in mind that every person has his personal pastimes, which one does not always want to share or talk about. Moreover, even if you are being changed, it is difficult to prove this until the person himself is unrecognized in everything. Do not need to make a fuss if your lover is late for a date or called you back. The feeling of jealousy makes a woman draw in her head various pictures of how her lover "rest" somewhere else in a place, if he does not pick up the phone or is late. But in fact everything is much easier, perhaps, it is at that moment that he selects flowers to make you feel good.
Jealousy destroys a good relationship
Any relationship can not be called good if they do not have trust and mutual understanding. There will be no intimacy until people start trusting each other. Relationships in which there is no intimacy are at the stage when you are only looking at or just starting to meet. And if the closeness has disappeared or even has not appeared after the wedding, such relations will be excruciating for both and eventually they will be destroyed.
Jealousy offends
If you are jealous of a loved one because he actually gave you an excuse and the reason is justified - it's normal, but when you are jealous for no particular reason - it's bad. First, you insult your loved one with distrust. But even more you insult yourself, when you are to become jealous of unreasonable, thereby you acknowledge and affirm that your loved one is more pleasantly with another woman. But you are much better than other women!
Unreasonable jealousy is inherent in immature women
Many women, when they become jealous, become like little children. We all watched, when in the shop the irritated mother tries to calm her whimsical daughter, who requires a new toy or sweets from her. And for all explanations of the mother, the child begins to get more hysterical. He wants candy! Also, jealous women appear in the role of a child, and the poor husband, in the role of mother, does not know how to calm a sobbing wife.
I would like to sum up ...
How can jealousy affect our relationship with a loved one? If the jealousy is well-founded and relevant in it there is nothing terrible, it is necessary to talk about your experiences carefully and calmly. Thus, you will show your maturity and show respect to your loved one, and in return you will get an understanding and, perhaps, even the situation will change for the better.
Do not make premature conclusions and weigh everything!