Children at the wedding: take or not take


Preparing for a wedding requires taking into account a lot of nuances that relate not only to organizational moments or the selection of dresses, restaurants and the style in which the event will take place. An important point is the planning of accommodation. Here you have to take into account such nuances as the age of the guests, they are familiar with each other or not, and most importantly - do they have children. The wedding implies that the main people of this celebration are those in honor of whom everything actually happens. However, the presence of children among the guests can be carefully prepared to turn into a children's morning performance.


It is clear that every parent believes that the main thing is the desire of their child, but this is not always relevant and not always interesting for the people around. So, there are several possible scenarios if children can be among the guests. Firstly, it is possible to send out invitations in advance, in which it will be noted that a banquet should be attended without children, especially in many restaurants this is one of the conditions for ordering banquets. If the presence of children is not a problem, you can cover separately for them or hire clowns that will occupy the younger guests. In addition, you can include children directly into the celebration process. However, the age of the child should be taken into account. It will be difficult for a kid to be up to a year, not only will he get tired himself, but still will not give a good rest and have fun for parents.

So, if it is decided that children will take part in the celebration or in some part of it, they should be warned about this. After all, if they know that they are welcome guests, for them, someone's wedding will also be an important expected event, to which they will be carefully prepared. Children can be engaged in the ceremony as "bridesmaids". You can ask the girls to "answer" for baskets with rose petals. And the boys will perform the functions of the pageant, which carry a train of the bride's dress during the ceremony, also the boy can hold the bride's bouquet or the cushion with the rings. The only thing that should not be forgotten, however, is the need to discuss the roles offered to children with their parents.

The main thing that will be required for the preparation of the kids is to choose a suitable outfit. In order to find an outfit for a girl it is necessary to take care of more than one shop, the good of our time offers sometimes exceed demand. But it should be remembered that the dress should not only be airy beautiful, but comfortable, because the child is a child. After the "important role" will be performed, the baby will have to run and play, without experiencing any inconvenience from the light attire. For the selection of dresses or costumes for a girl, it is desirable to stop your choice on light colors, otherwise brightly burgundy or dark blue dress will not look very harmonious with the bride's attire. It makes sense to consult the writhing before choosing an outfit for her. It may be that the wedding will be thematic or that the celebration will be sustained in a certain color gamma, so it will have to correspond. It is also possible that children's outfits will be provided by the organizers of the celebration.

In this regard, prepare a boy is much easier, for him it is enough to choose a strict suit, shoes, a bow tie and a small man is ready!

It is not necessary to mention that such an outfit for toddlers does not buy up for growth, because it is needed for a certain celebration, and children grow very fast and are unlikely to be able to flash in the same outfit in a year or even six months later.

However, children as guests may be too much or they simply do not engage in the ceremony, in this case, pick out the outfit will be easier. But all the same it is not necessary to be limited to jeans and koftotkami, let kiddish in any case feels a part of an event.

The question of buying a suitable outfit for a baby is accompanied by such a problem as its actual search. Benefit now there is a mass of shops, including on the Internet offering a rich assortment of holiday children's clothing of a diverse price range. Also, as an option, the services of specialized tailoring shops should also be discarded.

In any case, the main thing that should be remembered - the presence of children in the number of guests requires additional efforts, so that guests and guests are satisfied with the celebration.