Playing the public.
Everyone knows that ideals do not happen in life or in love. Some easily reconcile with this fact and do not seek to correspond to other people's ideas about what an impeccable relationship is. Others climb out of the skin, only to create the appearance of an ideal pair. Each of us has met such people more than once. They talk about their relationship and these stories are no different from pink and sweet cotton candy, from the most naive and romantic films. They do not have occasions for quarrels and jealousy, their sex is always fireworks, they do not cool to each other, they are always attentive, their everyday life is like the most grandiose holidays of ordinary people. It is not surprising that such an idyll gives rise to envy. But what is behind this?
Of course, to demonstrate their problems is a bad tone. All quarrels and quarrels are best left at home. But, if you just pretend that everything is fine with you, then sooner or later the truth will become visible to everyone. Demonstrative kisses, embraces, exaggerated stories about happiness in fact can be just a screen that hides indifference, mutual claims, discontent with their personal lives.
Do not spill water.
There are couples who, having met once, do not part for an instant. Such lovers live, work and rest together. They can not imagine a trip to a holiday separately, an ordinary trip to the store without each other can be a real tragedy for them. It's a pleasure to watch their relationship - they do not get bored with each other, despite the fact that they spend all day together. But before you ask your loved one not to leave himself for a moment, think about whether you are making a mistake.
In fact, such couples often do not depart from each other not from great love and not only from the desire to contemplate a loved one. In such relations, there is always a clear leader and one who plays the second role. There is often strong jealousy, which becomes the reason why lovers do not part. By the way, in fact, this total control is not popular with everyone.
Quiet pool.
There are couples whose relationships and lives do not change over time. They never quarrel, do not boil with jealousy and passion, in their relationship everything is exactly and predictably. They try to solve the most acute problems peacefully, prefer the family psychologist to beating dishes, are always benevolently adjusted and never allow themselves excess.
Is this not a model of an ideal relationship? In fact, an even and calm relationship is fine, but all of us sooner or later become overwhelmed by feelings. We can be offended or angry, rejoice or suffer. If these emotions are suppressed or carefully hidden, the necessary discharge will still happen. Only in this case, the storm can be much stronger and the consequences are more serious.
In the name of love.
Sometimes it is necessary to observe how some couples perform real feats in the name of each other. These are expensive gifts, songs under the window, forgiveness of the most serious misconduct. It is these people who jump with a parachute, write songs and open new stars for the sake of their loved ones. It is impossible not to envy them.
But few people realize that luxury gifts are beautiful acts, as if created by the best directors of melodramas, this is just compensation for betrayals, indifference, resentment. How often a new car of your girlfriend is an attempt to cajole her, after the beloved once again did not come home to spend the night. Are all these beautiful things and the loud words of those experiences that the unhappy lovers have to experience?
We all make mistakes. We are jealous, offended, irritated, doubted, deceived, quarreled. Sometimes we are ready for a break, and sometimes we can not do without each other. All this is normal. It is important to be honest with ourselves. Others may not notice what is really behind your ardent confessions, but you should be sure that this relationship makes you happy.