All are from childhood
Everything we do, what we say, how we act is the consequence of our upbringing. It is exactly how parents treated us, becomes the root cause of our behavior, attitudes towards people and situations. Those who like to characterize others and impose their opinions have been constantly subjected to attacks by their parents. Moreover, this does not mean that parents were bad people and did not like their children. Often, such treatment is the result of a very great love. Parents want their children to have only the best and without noticing, they impose their own self-understanding. For example, when a small child asks for a milk chocolate, the mamanist says "Let's get the black chocolate. You want him more, because he is more useful. " And whatever the child says, Mom keeps insisting on us. So it goes on again and again, in the end the person ceases to understand what he really wants. He gets used to what others know better than what he wants. Accordingly, guided by such a model, people begin to believe that they know perfectly well what other people want. They confidently give their characteristics, even without assuming that everything can be different. Very often, this attitude is manifested precisely to the closest people, because the more we communicate with a person, the more it seems to us that we know him better than ons. The entrenched idea that the closest knows everything better than we are made to characterize the native people, even if they begin to put up a stiff resistance.
Internal complexes
People give characteristics to others and in those cases when they feel that someone is better than himself. Such behavior is called a slander, a slander. People say things that are certainly not true. By the way, a person can give such characteristics both unconsciously and unconsciously. It happens that the subconscious mind so much wants to justify our actions, that it finds the minuses and inaccuracies in the behavior of other people. That's when we hear how a person without a backstart starts to tell that someone was not just made up because he's smart and purposeful, but because he has rich people, and that girl has successfully married, because either she is too handsome or slutty, or even bewitch. People who constantly characterize others, try to divert attention from themselves. They do not want anyone to notice their own minuses and characterize them. By giving all characteristics, they calm themselves and do not allow others to switch their attention. If someone starts to resist, then as a rule, people react to it sharply. That is, they are always sure that their names are right, and they can not even admit that it is their opinion that is false and that someone's opinion is correct. In such situations, one should never argue with those who are trying to describe someone. Naturally, in some situations it is simply impossible to remain silent. But still it is undesirable to get in touch, because as long as you do not argue, the person, on the contrary, as if reinforces your opinion with your negations and with even greater heat begins to give out his characteristics.
Selfishness
Desire to characterize also causes banal egoism. Selfish people want to live in a world that will be for them the most comfortable and ideal. That's why they do not want to see around personality. Such a person tries to create a puppet theater, which will act as he wishes. That is why he begins to characterize the people, giving them the qualities that, in the first place, are convenient for him. As a rule, egoists gather near themselves those who are weaker than those who sincerely love and appreciate them. It is easier for such people to impose their own characteristics and drive into the head what they want. Egoists characterize the people so that they feel worse, stupider, morally lower than himself. He always tries to "label" and kill in a person his own opinion, the notion of dignity and self-esteem. In the characteristic of a selfish person, you can hear such words as "smart", "purposeful", "talented" and so on. On the contrary, a person imposes on others the opinion that they are stupid, naive and can not do anything without it. As a rule, such an amateur distribute characteristics becomes a leader and presses on others in such a way that they come to the idea that without it they are completely useless for anything. In this case, the desire to characterize others is not simply a consequence of incorrect education. A person consciously humiliates others to shield themselves. Prichemon does not just express his characteristic. He does everything to ensure that the people around him fully believe in her, and behave according to what has been said. It is these characteristics that must be feared most. If a person does this unconsciously, then often he is really guided by the feeling of love and guardianship or simply does not notice what is happening. But when the negative characteristics are distributed purposefully, it is necessary immediately to get rid of such a person and get out of his influence. The fact is that such individuals are good manipulators. They always do everything, like them and never want to think about someone else's opinion. Even if they have a mind about someone to take care of, then to understand the desire of a person never goes speechless. Such an egoist is always confident that he is the best and the most intelligent, so he knows perfectly well who needs what and how he should behave to his entourage. If you feel that among your close people there is someone who always tells you the "truth of life", which somehow does not coincide with your own thoughts and opinions of others about you, consider whether it is trying to give you negative characteristics, guided by your own selfish goals.
People characterize others constantly. But far from everyone observes that such behavior is not correct in many aspects. Nobody knows us better than they do. Therefore, giving out the characteristics, it is worthwhile once again to think about whether we harm the psyche of people and whether we do not impose an opinion that could adversely affect their future.