Is he the "one and only" How to find out what you need to know about him How to determine if he loves? And how to get married and not make a mistake in choosing?
First, you need to talk to him about the role of husband, and imagine yourself as a wife. This should be part of your everyday conversations. It is better to start as soon as possible. But remember, this should not be an interrogation with addiction! Use time to use, to determine who he really is.
Such conversations have a beneficial effect on the development of relations. This completely relaxes you, and you can talk with him about everything, pauses in conversation will disappear and he will share his thoughts. But the most important thing is that you really love your chosen one and try to learn more about him. Strong relationships are based on knowledge, not on conjectures. If for you to "love" means to "understand" a person, then your union will be strong and mutual. If you do everything consistently, and focus on the man, and not on visiting cinemas or cafes, the result will not take long. And you can understand your chosen one better. In fact, getting married and not making a mistake is not so difficult as it may seem.
It is not necessary to be exchanged. Otherwise, in the end, you will lose time and health, so listen to your man and stimulate his desire to talk about himself. Ask him to open it to you and then it will be easier for you to drop an unsuitable person. Selecting a man in spirit, inspire him to talk heartily, to get married and not make a mistake, you need to understand your partner. Let his own words fall in love with him. Men love women who are ready to listen to them. Having attained mastery in communication of this kind, a man will not notice that you are interrogating him. But even if you notice this, he will continue to communicate with you and talk about himself. After all, everyone knows that men like to talk about themselves. Many men will aspire to you if they understand that you are able to listen to them.
It is also important to understand how a man values himself. He is happy to share with you his merits, but a little reluctantly - shortcomings, and to get married and not make a mistake, you need to know all the facets of your lover. You just need a little patience and understanding. Listening attentively to him, do not forget about praise in order to subdue him and earn respect. By this you show that you are the most suitable couple for him.
So, you have to determine if there is something special about it that distinguishes it from the others, then the only and unique that you are looking for in your companion. At this stage, the candidates are screened out. To properly weed them out, ask him questions, and do not talk about yourself. If you understand that he deserves, then you will tell him about yourself.
When meeting a man, find out for himself his life values and goals in order to determine whether he is suitable for you, whether you can marry him, whether you will make a mistake in choosing. But first clearly define your own values and goals. You can even write them down, so you can compare them later with the results. The answers should not coincide, they should be comparable.
Before me, personally, was the question of whether I chose the right man. We have been meeting for 7 months already. Before him there were guys, but on the second date I realized that they were not a couple. It happened automatically. And now I began to think more about the future and about those values of the chosen one that answer mine. Seeing the care and understanding in his eyes, I realized that he really loves me and is ready for everything for me. It seems such a small thing, but only a really loving person will say "I want to have a child only from you". At first I did not understand its meaning, but now, after reading a lot of literature, I understand that no man will want just a child, which means that he is already confident in his choice. And only one that is ready to wait for you every day. This is another factor that made me think and make an important decision in my life ... get married.