The very first rule how to deal with difficult situations is to know and think that there are no insoluble problems and situations. Everything depends on our desire to fight and win. If you think that this problem is not up to you and you can not solve it, it will be so. If you are optimistic, you can easily get out of any situations. Remember: what's in your head, then in your life. It's like a glass - filled with only half the water - for someone half full, and for someone half empty.
According to the laws of feng shui, it is considered that our thoughts materialize, if not reversed, then this is so, so never say the word "problem", replace this word with another, for example "caring." It sounds much simpler, does not it? The employee quit is not a problem, there is another, the turnover of staff everywhere exists. Scolded a guy - do not worry, make it up, and if you broke up - there's no guy - there's no problem .... kaku us it is spoken. Less think about the problem itself and think more about the ways of the solution.
Try to distract yourself somehow. Go somewhere - take your time, have fun, talk with your friends, and after all your worries seem to be mere trifles, because with the help and support of friends, relatives and friends it is possible to solve everything. Communicate with people who have already passed through such situations similar to yours or talk to the mica people who have everything fine and you will get a big charge of positive emotions, which will help you to look at your situation quite different eyes. In the end, talk to your mom, dad's sister or brother, who will always be on your side and will be able to support you morally.
Never try to avoid or escape from the difficulties that have arisen - it's useless, do not postpone the decision, immediately solve the problems. The more you resist and do not want to solve your problems, the more they absorb you.
Read more smart books with the slanders of great people. Less watch TV - you do not need to draw a negative from the plasma, because the negative is so full.
And my last advice: live and enjoy life, every minute and every moment. It is not necessary from small things to inflate the problem. His heel broke - go barefoot to "repair shoes", selabatareika on the phone - 100 years ago there were no phones at all and people dazhene thought about it. Treat everything easier and do not zamarachivaytes on all sorts, they are not worthy of your precious attention. And if it has happened that you have a problem - meet her with a proud head and then you will have everything in life as you want, because the masters of our lives are ourselves!