Sex and watching movies (in the worst case, TV) - that's how we spend free evenings. Well, this is not bad ... However, monotony is the first step to routine and boredom ... So why not dilute gray everyday life with bright colors and not try something new? I wonder what games you can play with your husband? Attention: 5 undeservedly forgotten classes for two left alone at home.
EATING AT HOME...
"In fact, I never liked to cook, " says Nina, 29. " However, my husband loves homemade food, and therefore quite often I had to stand by the stove." Honestly, I did it without enthusiasm. So it continued until we came to visit my colleague Katya. She literally fluttered at the stove in a beautiful dress. Her husband Volodya was there, helping to mix the ingredients, cheerfully turning over the pancakes, incidentally telling some stories and hugging her. It was clear that they like to be in the kitchen, the process carries them and does not bother at all. Katya then confessed to me that she and her husband often arrange such joint culinary parties, the main thing is to choose not too complicated dishes for preparation and to treat this as a creative process. In a couple of days I have a beautiful cookbook from all that was in the store, and a set of very good dishes. And unexpectedly for me, the evening experiment on joint cooking with Sergei was a success. First, we found that simple and delicious recipes are a dime a dozen. And secondly, it turned out, to cook together fun. You can chat, exchange news, help each other, add something to your prescription and eventually get a result - a delicious dinner and a good mood. "
In fact, through the stomach the way lies not only to the heart of a man, but also to a happy family life. Take for yourself the rule: once a week, arrange thematic parties for two. Today you have an evening of Caucasian cuisine: you cook chakhokhbili and ajapsan-dal (as accompaniment you can listen to jazz performed by Nino Katamadze or include as a background "Mimino"). Next week, plan sushi or conquer Italian cuisine ... There are a lot of options! The main thing is no routine. Theme music, beautiful clothes and dishes ... What is not a romantic dinner?
ALL FOR SABBITNIK ...
Another, it would seem, is not the most pleasant occupation - cleaning - can also become a fun entertainment for two. The main thing is not to call things by their proper names. You do not clean up, but maintain order. Moreover, you are engaged in an interior. Discuss together what exactly you do not like about the apartment. Maybe you would like to get rid of excess furniture or gradually completely change the interior. Look through the specialized magazines, study the design programs together and create - while on the computer - the house of your dreams. If your budget does not allow you to swing at grandiose projects, repaint the walls and change the curtains. Do not be afraid of bright colors: if you do not like something, you can always do it. Well, of course, joint crafts for the house - a great pastime. Make a family album or collage on the wall from children's photos, sew a blanket from patches or decorate the shells of a casket ...
As for cleaning as such, it can also be made playable: dressing in frivolous clothes and including fun music (for example, rhythms of the 80's or children's songs from cartoons). You'll see: you and your husband will like this cleaning!
HOME PHOTO STUDIO
Left with her husband alone, invite him to "play" in the photographer. Do you have a camera with interchangeable lenses? A little soap box? Old film camera? What's the difference! The main thing - your desire and imagination. Take pictures of each other, change outfits, pose nude, portray different emotions, turn on and off the light. Do not be afraid that it will turn out badly or the photos will be dark, because now you feel good. If you want the pictures to be better, pay attention to the light. In bad or evening light, there is much less chance of getting a good photo. Shoot in the afternoon, opening the curtains so that daylight penetrates into the room, or be stocked with a pair of lamps. Keep in mind that light colors (for example, white walls) weaken the contrasts and depth of shadows. Painted surfaces create the appropriate shade. The dark environment absorbs light, intensifies contrasts and shadows. Read on the Internet the simplest photography lessons - this will help you make more perfect pictures. But let the technique be the tenth thing. Experiment, do not hesitate to play with her husband. In the end, it is important not how perfect the quality will be, but what kind of mood the cards will have and what positive charge you will receive in the process. Do not focus on either harshness or beauty and move away from the patterns. It's just your creativity, and you can afford anything you like.
MIND GAMES
Fans of the computer and the Internet can entertain themselves with on-line games, the blessing of lack in them is not present. Of course, sitting at home in the network and playing games is not too romantic, but many of this option to liking, you get an excellent discharge and are distracted from pressing problems (both from workers and from personal).
However, too much to get involved in a computer is not worth it, because there are quite a few so-called desktop intellectual games. This is scrabble, and puzzles, and monopoly, and twister, and cards, and lotto ... Recall a series of "Sex in the City", where the next romantic infatuation of Kerry began precisely during the game in a twister. In fact, this is a very exciting activity!
Even if you have never painted and found no drop of writing talent in yourself, it's time to try yourself in a new field. Draw and write together. Remember all the known burima - on the same principle, you can paint a picture: you start, the husband continues. Buy gouache and oil pastel, pencils and markers, a roll of whatman paper or just large sheets of paper - and go! Fear of white paper passes very quickly, you just have to relax and just start acting. Many artists did not study anywhere and for the first time took up a brush in adulthood. You do not have the task of becoming a professional - you just have fun. Do not want to draw - sculpt. From plasticine, clay, dough ... Paint your figurines, make up stories about them, compose tales and tell them to each other for the night ...
ON THE TRACES OF CLEOPATRA ..,
Another romantic entertainment is the joint taking of a bath. Drink champagne, read aloud, do a relaxing and erotic massage. Make sure that the date in the bathroom is romantic. Splash like children, gently caress each other, like young lovers, and enjoy the moment. And after the bath, it's time to have sex.
OTHER OPTIONS
What games can you play with your husband and wife, forgetting about routine and boredom? Left alone at home - without children and parents, you can:
♦ learn to dance on a disc or videocassette ...
♦ listen to audiobooks or read each other out loud (you can even stage a performance and show it to children or friends);
♦ learn to play musical instruments and sing (for example, your husband plays the guitar, and you sing - what is not a duet?);
♦ armed with cards and the Internet, plan the next vacation;
♦ make your own ratings (5 happiest events in your life together, 5 brightest memories of childhood, 5 most important people ...). Psychologists say: it brings together ...
ENTERTAINMENT AT THE HOROSCOPE
When your fantasy is exhausted and you literally do not know what else to do, pay attention to what the stars advise ...
IF YOUR VIRGIN AIR (AQUARIUS, TWINS, WEIGHTS), you are a creative person. You probably will be carried away by various crafts, drawing, playing music and reading aloud. Just start - and your partner (regardless of the zodiac sign) will follow you!
IF YOUR EARTH'S NATURE (CAPRICORN, TAURUS, VIRGO), you will be interested in re-planning the interior, cooking and creative cleaning. You are simply created in order to enjoy the work, and therefore at leisure, you can organize an additional business, which for sure will start to bring income.
If your fire is (OWEN, LION, SAGITTARIUS), you just need to organize a home theater. Read aloud, play skits, learn to play the guitar ... By the way, now in many bars on weekends there are amateur musicians.
IF YOUR WATER NATURE (FISH, CANCER, SCORPIO), you are surely given excellent foreign languages. Take advantage of this! Buy tutorials, tapes and videos and learn a new language with your husband (you will be able to infect it with your energy and enthusiasm).