Part must be beautiful
Oksana Bairak is sure that it is necessary to part with beautiful things. As well as to meet. Paris, Rome, Cannes are cities for meetings, sun-saturated passions, a thirst for pheromones and an insatiable moisture of desires. If you meet, you are directly on your way here. You will not regret.
For partings, however, you need to pick up something equally romantic, but foggy-marine, so that the aforementioned pheromones are stunned with sadness. To part with Him, tormented by the hopelessness of misunderstanding, Oksana chose December and Jurmala. And I did not fail. Because in the Galaxy there is no more mysterious Nebula. The former two walked along the shore, dissolving in the haze, and the sea breeze from time to time left on the faces of the salt tears of the sea. And yet - a verdict on the rupture. Immediate and irrevocable.
The man who for the last four years seemed to Oksana best in the world was deafened. He walked a little ahead and passionately shouted that all his failures with women come from childhood. That inattention and even cruelty towards them is his peculiar revenge to the weak sex, resulting from his youthful protest against the behavior of his father, who, while worshiping his mother, obeyed her in everything. Also has decided, that in its love of similar displays will not be. Because he is a strong man. After hearing the speech and evaluating her as a director, Oksana could not agree as a woman. She is sure that the highest degree of male power is precisely manifested in allowing a beloved woman to feel the center of the universe.
A weak man is a strong woman
For Oksana Bairak, the notion of "man is strong" and "man is weak" is simply a fashion trend. How to identify the measure, the criteria by which these concepts can be defined? For example, a man has biceps, he wins in the ring. At the same time, this same man can insult, demean a woman as a word and act. Is it in his case, too, the formula "strong man" works?
Initially, men were born to be strong, it's not for nothing that the male sex is called exactly that. Alas, the current economic situation, surrounding us socium form their weakness. Many men can not find themselves in a new, unfamiliar life, for the most part unable to provide for a family. The men were confused. And here on the arena, which is quite natural, an unknown previously hitherto polar concept - a "strong woman" - is actively emerging.
Until recently, a strong woman, producer and director Bairak herself claimed that the world turned upside down. And women completely took the reins in their own hands. Yes, there to say - 10 years ago, she herself built a studio, fantasized, gushing ideas. His husbands, both first and second, explained in detail what to do and how. In a word, Bayrak fully justified its surname, which in Turkic means "banner". She understood that she was strong, and she liked this title. When I parted from my husbands, I thought that the gap was due to the fact that she began to live in a compromise of dislike. Now Oksana realizes that she parted for quite another reason: she was overwhelmed by a wild fatigue from her own strength, superiority and the need for decision-making.
- Today, when I finally bathe in an atmosphere of absolute love, I understand the meaning of my mother's question. I remember, everything complained: "Mom, why is he like that?" Why should I invent everything myself? Why should the "party strategy" lie on my fragile shoulders? Why am I, and only me, forced to lead to the victory of our happy family life? "Mom in reply asked:" Have you ever thought that it's all your own fault? When you started dating your men, they were all very strong, were not they? Why did you need to become strong with them? "Now I really like the saying of one sage:" The weakness of a woman is in chanting the power of a man. " Brilliantly! Since such a "song" inspires confidence in a man, he feels himself to be the king of the world, and as a result not he, but the woman becomes a strong, a kind of gray cardinal, and can control the most courageous men in the world.
Oksana Bayrak had completely opposite thoughts. Perhaps it's already strength to be weak? Perhaps you need to be able to stupidly clap your eyelashes? No less silly, but sexy open the plump from nature or from silicone lips, listening to every word of a man? Learn. Practice in front of the mirror. Put the experiments on the first passer-by, finally. And you will succeed! There will be a high deception for the sake of low truths. The lure of the stupidity of the appearance to utter their cleverest desires and receive their fulfillment is the axiom of female happiness.
Maybe it's worth trying to be softer: "Dear, but let's fantasize, how can we get out of the difficulties? "After all, after numerous scandals, demands, inconsistencies, the main thing is destroyed. The man who once told you "I love! "And whom you loved, it turns out to be your main enemy. And in bed with the enemy - it's scary.
Under the deep conviction of both the man and the director Oksana Bairak, neither in love, nor in family life, nor in any free relations can not be, in a bad sense of the word, a consumer. It's nice, of course, to consume the love of a loved one, but you have to pay for it with the same coin. And then we completely forget about such concepts as a strong and weak man.
Epilogue
After Jurmala, Oksana was no longer seen with her. And recently in one of the glossy magazines published an interview with a Former Hero. It turns out that he is grateful to his father for an example of strength in dealing with a woman. The strength that manifested itself in the fact that the father allowed the beloved woman all the years to feel herself as the main, the only strong in its weakness, the center of the universe. All the same, life puts all the points. And what seemed secondary and wrong could turn out to be the wisest and most important. At least, this is the position of the professional director and beautiful woman Oksana Bayrak.