If the acquaintance has not taken place yet, but the young man actively invites you to flirt, that is, he calls you smilingly, shoots a glance in your direction, then you can safely approach him and make the acquaintance first. Thus, you will let him know that you are also interested in him. If you're shy to get acquainted first, then ask a braver friend to introduce you.
Sometimes after the acquaintance the young person disappears, does not call and does not make itself felt. You're puzzling over what you said or did wrong. Do not worry if he likes you, then, in a week and a half, he will call you and make an appointment. Men like to "play" with the girl in hide and seek at the beginning. Then, when the initiative goes into your hands, you can also take him by the nose a little, late for a date or canceling it at the last minute. This "training" gentleman using the "carrot and stick" method encourages him and encourages more active methods. Do not bend the stick. Everything is good in moderation.
It is not necessary to sit back from acquaintance, waiting for when he will call you. You can easily call him, unobtrusively ask how things are. But do not appoint him a meeting. You already already made a step forward - I called him. If a man is interested in seeing you again, he will surely invite you to meet. From a ringing call it becomes clear what plans the man is building about your relationship, whether he is serious about you. If you suspect cheating or flattery on his part, it is better to avoid continuing to meet and not to call him more.
If you still agreed to meet, dress appropriately, make a low-key make-up, sprinkle hair with perfume. On the first date a person receives a large amount of information about his potential partner. Keep a distance: young people do not welcome that the girl with whom they expect a serious relationship, allows herself to be hugged and kissed at the first meeting. Do not try to seem smarter and better than you really are. The main rule of nascent sympathy is naturalness. After all, you do not want to disappoint your lover in a week of your relationship, when it turns out that you lied to him that you are very good at computers? Be yourself, this is the best way to enjoy it.
Young people do not like girls who, from their first visits, begin to doubt their mind and strength. If you consider yourself smarter than him in something, do not tell him that, so you risk ruining your relationship. Better tell him something interesting about yourself, ask him about something. Admire them, if he tells you about his virtues, so you let him know that he is more than cute to you. Young people are attracted to girls who have hobbies, so do not answer "Well, I do not know ..." if he asks you about your hobby. Probably, you have it, just you do not want to tell a young man that you adore, for example, knit. Even the simplest and simple infatuation can be painted so that it seems to him that this occupation can be devoted to life. The main thing is to let the young man understand that you are a self-sufficient person who knows his place in the world.
In further relations with men, women often have to take the initiative into their own hands and push them to certain decisions. For example, if you meet for a long time and it's time to legitimize your union, push it to the man yourself, and do not wait until he ripens for marriage. Some women manage all their lives so imperceptibly to manipulate men that they do not notice any pressure on them. And all those around them say that the man in their family is the boss, he makes all the decisions himself. In fact, it is, just a man takes those decisions that a wise woman tells him.
Build your relationships yourself, and do not expect that someone will build them for you!