The problem of drunkenness in our country was, is and remains unresolved and urgent for today. In many families husbands continue to drink, and their wives and children because of this suffer and cry. And then the problem of female and teenage alcoholism is sharply growing. Social advertising, which speaks of a healthy lifestyle, revolves around one or another television channel from morning till night, and people, of course, watch it, but in most cases it causes only a smirk on their face. What do not you say in this situation, but the problem of alcoholism itself will not be solved, and such advertising will not help, if you do not take yourself by the head and take no decisive steps to eradicate this harmful habit.
In the drunkenness of their faithful, in most cases, wine falls on the shoulders of the wives themselves, who, not knowing what to do with the alcoholic husband, try to solve this problem with scandals. Here you can safely and include the constant reproaches and reproaches against her husband, which are thoroughly entrenched in the family statute. Plus, women are very nervous to their husbands and often try to demand from them something unreal and unbearable. All this can push a man to the abyss, in which he becomes an alcoholic.
If the husband has already drunk
What to do with husbands alcoholics who themselves are not aware of ruin not only their family, but also life? Where did he find the reason for his unbearable daily drinking? All these questions torment many women, whom fate associated with such a husband. Of course, in such a situation you can go the well-known path and seek help from a specialist who will prescribe a special treatment. But the whole problem is that alcoholism is usually a kind of mental illness in some kind of way and to get healed from it, it is necessary to make a special and at the same time correct approach to the person. And such methods of fighting a man as an alcoholic as coding from alcoholism, to a huge regret, do not help in all cases. Even publicly recognized ways to heal a husband from drunkenness, for example, conspiracies, can not help much. First of all, it is necessary to do everything possible to solve this problem, putting maximum of its efforts to it. And for this it is necessary to know the basic rules of behavior with the husband an alcoholic.
Rules of conduct with a drunk husband
It is necessary to realize this problem. The process of recovery begins with the wife. The wife is obliged to identify the problem and play hide and seek with her. It is important for a woman to talk with her husband (when he is sober) on this topic.
Do not force your spouse to listen to stories about the dangers of alcohol. Usually all alcoholics do not care.
The wife must stop any additional funding for her husband. Plus, it's enough to remove dirty shoes from a drunken husband and drag him to bed, let him find the way there himself.
Do not take responsibility for your husband. Let him decide whether to drink to him all the money or not. It is important that it is his choice, not women. Having spent all salary on alcohol, the husband should independently understand, that has made badly and has left close people without money. In this case, his conscience may begin to torment him.
The wife should not take on the role of the all-powerful savior. Its main goal is to help her husband in every way and ways to get a desire to get rid of alcohol dependence and bring this desire to a positive result.
Do not forget to always say praise to her husband for all his positive actions. For example, returned home on time and sober, - here it is, a good reason to praise.
If the husband is cured of this addiction, the wife needs to replace this dependence with something distracting. For example, a new hobby.
The wife must change herself and the family environment to the maximum. Noticing these changes in the family, a man can stop drinking. Remember, the atmosphere that reigns in the family can really help relapse dependency.