A lot of women's magazines give advice on how to behave in order to keep your man. They try to please the husband in all, and in appearance and culinary masterpieces, and in his whims of an intimate nature. They study Kama Sutra, study a lot of culinary recipes, sit on diets, systematically go to the fitness room, and to beauty salons. And all this in order to please your beloved, to be for him always the best and the only one. A woman goes to many sacrifices in order to finally realize that she can no longer be with her man, she does not want it, she has bothered her.
And suddenly he realizes that a woman who loves him suddenly leaves him. The one who did everything for him, forgave all his antics and implicitly obeyed him! From him, good, kind, bringing in the house a salary, a drinker and a non-smoking !?
Because of what a woman can get away from a man? Where to look for the reason that women get bored with men and how to understand this? Why does she want to go somewhere to the left? Are representatives of the fair sex and the truth are so unstable?
To begin with, the woman in this situation is only part of the blame. And, if the man knew about it, maybe he would manage to prevent such a situation as the betrayal or withdrawal of his woman.
After all, men reason that he married her, which means that now she is obliged to do all that he tells her or asks, and as for domestic duties, then everything should be done by her, because it's not a man's job to vacuum or dishes wash. After all, he brings money to the family, he is the breadwinner. And the fact that his wife works too, comes home tired not less than him ... but who cares? This wife must manage and work and at home to do everything, to deal with themselves and children. And this is taken for granted! And he can now relax, because his wife is conquered, there is work, and you can rest. He can afford to grow a belly, walk around the house with a fume or smell badly with tobacco or sweat, watch football at a time when his wife tries to seduce him, etc.
And this is how the days, weeks, months, and years pass. She always expects that this will all pass, that he will finally want to go somewhere with her and romance to spend the evening, that at least sometimes she will say "thank you" for the prepared supper, washed and ironed clothes, for the warmth and affection. She tolerates his beer evenings with friends who always yell "a goal!", Even when the child has already fallen asleep. He also tolerates that he considers her more stupid than herself. And does not allow her to communicate with those people with whom she wants to, and wear those things that she likes. A woman is a patient being, she is ready to bear many things on her fragile shoulders. For the time being.
Once upon a time, the turning point will come when she will not stand it all, she will have courage, and she will not think very long over the consequences of her actions. Just go away and that's it. Most women, of course, will try to save the family, but this will be just a formal marriage, without love, warmth and affection.
A woman gets bored of being a free app for his man to his precious life. She does not want to be a food processor, she is tired of acting as a rubber doll, pillow, furniture, or something that allows her man to feel comfortable. And every day and every night in her heart and soul, the desire to prove to everyone that you are a living person is growing more and more. That you also have feelings, emotions, dreams and aspirations. What do you really have a deep inner world, interesting and multifaceted. Or maybe you have a talent that constantly muffled your stupid phrases like: "you do not sing, but quack" or "your mother dances better than you", "do not even try, you will not get it anyway", etc., e. And he does it in order to have authority over you and not lose you and your services when you develop your talent. And she is tired of that her man who does not want to hear her, does not take her conversations seriously. After all, he sees nothing and no one in the family, except for himself and his needs.
A man just needs to be grateful to his woman for what she does for him. Though it seems to them stupid to thank her for what she must do, what are her direct duties. For example, for washed dishes, washed socks, for a cleaned apartment and everything else that she does for him and their families. After all, it seems to men that it's all so easy to do that they do not need to be grateful for that, that's why they do not say thankful words to their wives. And then they are still surprised that their wives are tired of being servants, and servants, as it is known to pay for it.
When a man stops in his development, he becomes suspicious, absurd, stingy and quarrelsome. He can not clearly answer most questions, in his failures begins to blame everyone, except himself. He begins to watch TV shows, drink beer in front of the TV, dissolve and collect gossip, will become a frequent guest on porn sites. He ceases to deal with his appearance, and believes that his old, sprawled panties can make you sexually attracted, and his fingers, which always smell like tobacco, you just dream to feel on your lips.
He does not want to do anything if this does not concern the satisfaction of his own pleasure, his comforts and ambitions. He only deals with his personality, no one else is important to him. And then, when this woman gets bored with everything, she will not stop him from loving himself, caressing and cherishing his Ego. She will simply leave him, perhaps to the man who sees her as a woman, and will love and appreciate her. And to live not only for myself, but also for your beloved woman.
Probably, there are many more reasons why a man can get bored with a woman. But, I think that the main aspects of the question of how to understand: when the girl was tired of her man, I opened it. I believe that knowing these simple answers you can think about how to keep your woman. And she never gets bored.