A bit of mysticism.
The next time he calls you, say that you were thinking about him, or was going to call him. And, it's true, or not, does not matter. The main thing is to let the man know that you have some kind of mystical connection with him. Most people, including men, are superstitious and believe in various signs, mysticism and other "dark" aspects of our life. Therefore, thanks to a series of "coincidences", your chosen one can become confident that you have a special, mental connection.
Talk like he does!
Do you have a colleague at work with whom you work in the same field, are fond of the same music, but your conversation lasts no more than ten minutes? Why is that? The main thing is not what you're talking about, but HOW you do it. Communication often does not work for people who have different modalities of conversation. This concept came to us from neurolinguistic programming. There are three types of them: kinesthetic, auditory and visual. To be a pleasant and interesting interlocutor, it is important to understand what type of modality a man is. Vizuals often use the words-images ("see what happens") in conversation. A person related to audials will talk about what he hears ("it sounds strange, but"). Kinestetics operate with their senses, you will hear from them: "I felt at that moment." As soon as, it becomes clear to you what kind of person your interlocutor belongs to, you will be able to adjust to it, and your conversations will last for hours. You will become interesting to a man.
You are already a couple!
Begin to use in your conversation the pronoun "us", "we". Sitting in a bar, ask him: "Can we still order wine?". Putting this thought in the head of a man, you create from him an image of the fact that you are a couple. This is the first step to prepare a man for a serious relationship. However, do not overdo it with the amount of "we", remember, everything should be in moderation. The phrase "what we will do on vacation" in the first month of your relationship can scare off a man.
Adrenalin!
Become for him an association with bright and strong emotions, with adrenaline. Buy him a ticket to a concert of your favorite band, from the music of which your beloved runs goosebumps, offer to jump with a parachute. In a word, create situations in which the heart of your man will fight harder, he will experience bright and intense emotions. Remember that extreme and sexual arousal are very similar: the heart also beats faster, also intermittent breathing, the same vivid emotions and pleasant impressions. Calling him a strong association with extreme situations, you'll associate him with pleasant sensations.
Colour.
How much color means to perceive sexually. It is not for nothing that the red color is the color of sex and eroticism. When was the last time you put on scarlet, red, rich and deep? On the next date, be sure to wear a bright red blouse or skirt. Blue and green, in contrast, have a calming effect. If you want to just have a quiet and pleasant evening, put on one of these flowers.
Mirror.
Psychologically, when we copy the movements of the interlocutor, we become closer to him, like him. Subconsciously, this is perceived as kinship. Copy the behavior and movements of your man, for example, if he puts his foot on his leg, do the same. This will make you closer to him.
Name.
For a man, his name means a lot. Call a man more often by his name. When you pronounce the letters of his name, you become closer to him. You form an intimate and personal connection. The main thing is not to overdo it. For half an hour of your communication it is enough to call him three times by name, if you do this more often, then you can cause suspicion.
Touch
Tactile sensations are always pleasant. When we touch a man, he takes it positively. An innocent hand on his shoulder or an allegedly accidental touch can bring you and the man closer.