Fear is in power.
Men often very much feel uncomfortable if he meets a girl with experience of sexual relations? He does not really like it when his girlfriend shows all his sexual experience in bed. There are some male phobias that deprive them of potency. These fears arise when a man is afraid of losing power, or is afraid to break accepted cultural taboos. And a man is afraid of jealousy and feelings of inferiority.
Who is in charge here?
A man is not very happy to communicate with a girl with experience of sexual relations. Your experience, and most importantly - initiative in sexual relations can be perceived as a threat to his male "competence." It seems that the main "tool of production" is his, and you are leading in bed! He was used to the fact that he was always in charge. And then it turns out that he and his "gun" can nervously smoke on the sidelines, because compared to you - he's just a salad. What to do about it? If a girl with experience he does not like, then you have to return him the powers and rights. Play the game "What will my lord wish?". He will be delighted that you know how to handle his body!
Against the rules.
Your experience of sexual relations contradicts the established cultural foundations. It is believed that, while young men enrich the treasury of erotic knowledge, girls modestly sit at home and knit lace napkins. Of course, now very few people insist on maintaining the innocence before the wedding, but somewhere deep under the cranium there are still similar atavisms. According to them, a girl with experience of sexual relations can not be "decent". What to do: ask your man to become your teacher. Let him show what he likes and what does not. And then change roles: let him know how to bring you joy.
The last in line.
Your experience and skill in bed leads a man to think that others have visited him here. He novoobrazhena his fellow students and colleagues, with whom you had fun. Being extreme in the queue of your sexual wins is unpleasant. He used to think that men win, and girls - they give themselves to conquer. What to do: jealousy is not treated. If a man begins to think about your former acquaintances, try to assure him that he is the best, most important, wonderful. And the fact that you're a girl with experience is better for both of you. Did not work? Leave him alone with meditation. A normal man is not jealous of the past.
High Competition.
Your loved one can be afraid that you compare him with your former lovers ... You look at him and think: "Here Vasya the position of the missionary was much better, and Peter was not bad in preliminary caresses. What are you doing? "What to do: because you are a girl with experience, to say compliments to him, to admire his skills, to enjoy every successful movement. Let him see that you, with your experience of sexual relations, are satisfied with them! This will give him confidence.
A delicate approach.
Sexual experience consists not in collecting the mastered sexual poses and not in the number of lovers, but in how much you know and understand your body and how you are able to give him pleasure. After all, an experienced woman, if she is sympathetic to his sense of dignity, is a gift for a man. And he should be glad of such a gift.