Whatever the ideal pair you were not, yet in the relationship between a guy and a girl, the hard moments happen to everyone. It would seem: everything is fine with you, no quarrels and complaints have ever arisen, but suddenly a storm broke out. Let's say at once: so that all at once everything boils up and burst out, it never happens. Most likely, you and the guy were harboring some insults inside yourself, so as not to spoil the beginning relationship. However, it is impossible to hold resentment for a long time, sometimes it splashes out after some trifle. And a huge scandal breaks out, which necessarily leaves a negative mark on the relationship between a guy and a girl. Silences are a product of silent mistrust. It is difficult, of course, to trust a person whom you do not know for as long as you would like. But if you decide on a really serious relationship, then you simply have to show at least some minimum of confidence in your partner, otherwise he will get the impression that you constantly check and control him. And such, believe me, not like any man. Yes there is a man: a woman, too, is unlikely to tolerate a constant distrust. Therefore, learn to trust your loved ones, in any case, until they (suddenly) show that they can not be trusted. But then, most likely, the relationship will end.
Often, a young couple have a hard time arguing when it comes to their joint pastime. In particular, quarrels can arise about your friends and your boyfriend's friends. Let's say you want to sit in a cafe with your girlfriends and a guy, drink tea and chat about something vital and interesting. And the guy struggles to dissuade you from this stupid, in his opinion, venture, invite his friends, buy beer and shrimp and all evening watch the gold collection of world football. By the way, you do not like football since childhood. Therefore, you, as well as you can, resist the plans of your man. What of this can happen? Yes, nothing good. Because of your differences, everyone will remain at their own opinion, and as a result, you will spend the whole evening at the TV without talking to each other. But it was so interesting to spend time! But they could not find a compromise.
Although there are even a few. The first of them: today you go for a walk with your girlfriends to the cafe in which you are so drawn in the morning. And your boyfriend and his fellow fans will enjoy the men's company and football with beer. You will not return home late, but the guys will finish the show, you and the guy will be full of pleasant emotions, share with each other merry moments of the evening, and, happy, go to bed. The second option: you will make an unofficial schedule of walks with his friends and with your girlfriends. Let's say that today you spend an evening with his friends, and tomorrow you go to plow the streets with yours. Well, on a mandatory basis, you need to arrange as many evenings as possible for two. Moreover, it is advisable to invent something interesting: say, going to a cinema, to an ice rink or just to a cafe. And then for general walks you will soon stop spending time alone together.
There are a few more points that can poison the life of a young couple. For example, this relationship with the former. Sometimes it turns out that some of the couple have excellent contacts with the former. They can even meet in the cafe for an hour or two, chat and drink coffee. It is not surprising that this state of affairs is absolutely unacceptable to the other half and causes severe jealousy. To which the first "half" responds to the indignant: "I will not stop communicating with them. They are very good people! ". But here you need to try to understand your partner and put yourself in his place. Would you like to be in the same position, stay at home and wait for the guy from the cafe, where he peacefully gossips with the ex-girlfriend? Here is the answer to your indignation, it is better to break all old ties and start living a new life.
Among the reasons. Causing conflicts in a pair, there may be more trivia, like money, the appearance of a partner (you probably for once in your life thought that in such a haircut he would be better, and it's not worth jeans to wear, but the guy was unshakable in his choice), relationships with the family ... Why did we call them "small"? Because their scale is really insignificant. If you love your boyfriend, you will learn to find compromises and with dignity to get out of difficult life situations. And your life will be filled with exclusively positive emotions and unrestrained happiness!