How can parents spend more time with their children?

Many believe that attention should be paid only to young children. Until the child becomes independent, he is cared for, he is paid attention, but when he becomes a little older, less and less often he is interested in his affairs. But maturing children need attention and help no less than infants. Adult children can get dressed, go out, eat, but they find it difficult to make a more correct decision. And they need parents who forgot that they should pay more attention to adult children. If only they did not let the process of education take their course. To my great regret, there are also parents who think that the complexities and the street temper the character of the child.
How to give more attention to children?
Usually a woman says that she works, removes, goes shopping, she does not have time to give the child attention. And then, he is an adult and can take care of himself. This is the main problem, that he can occupy himself with something. Only not always in advance it is known, than it will be engaged and whether it is pleasant to you.

Parents do not think that children need to pay more attention. The child will grow up independent, but in terms of communication with him, when he grows up, there will be certain difficulties. He will become secretive and withdrawn.

Once you are back from work, then you simply have to pay more attention to the children and your parental duty is to raise your kid a good person. You can not allow the "street" to raise a child. But how can you manage everything and give your children more time and attention?

Try to involve children in home affairs. You want to cook soup. Involve the child to clean potatoes, in return, promise to play with your favorite game. This way you can "kill 2 rabbits". Lunch will cook faster, and you will spend time with the child, in the process of cooking, talk with him, teach him to do what is not just useful to him in life, and playing an interesting game, you can completely relax after work. You can not only play the children's games, teach to play the child in a game that will be interesting for you.

When you are going to the store, tell the child that you need his help and take it with you. In addition, the earlier you begin to attract a child to go shopping, the sooner he will form an opinion that it is necessary and interesting. In the store, buy him a trifle-a typewriter, a kinder-surprise or juice, then from a visit to the store, the child will have only a pleasant memory.

From an early age, teach the child to relax with the family. And even if you and your husband did not have any common interests, they should be invented for the baby. Mother, remembering her childhood, full of pleasant memories and adventures, can persuade her husband to take her daughter for fishing.

The daughter gets used to being close to her parents, they spend all weekend fishing together, they help each other to fish, pick up gear, light a fire and eat shish kebab. In such a family there will be no question of where to go fishing or to a disco. As a rule, classmates choose a disco, although at 14 years old nightclubs run early. And my daughter is interested in being with her parents, and they are trying to give her more attention. During the day, the daughter communicates with her peers, and in the evening parents take bicycles and ride the whole family. Such evening walks are useful for a fragile organism, useful for joints and muscles, besides, they even more bring the family together.

If these trips began from childhood, the child will not perceive them as violence against the person. The way children grow up depends on the parents, not on friends, streets and schools. If parents take their sleeves to their duties, then the children will also grow up.

But if parents spend a lot of time with their children, they invest in their upbringing love and soul, then children will grow up decent and educated people. But if the family has constant drinking, fights, quarrels, the child grows like a "weed" and there can be no question of any upbringing. After all, children absorb in themselves, like sponges, all that they see. And if they see good, they only absorb "good". There are exceptions, but they are single. Love children and do not forget to communicate with them, give them your time.