So, how do girls stop being just a friend for guys? To begin with, it is necessary to understand why this is how young people treat you. In general, not every girl can really be friends with guys. Only a few people know how to carry such a friendship through life. Therefore, before trying to change something, think how much you need it. After all, the guys come and go, and friends are forever. But, if you understand that one of the guys for you is very important not only as a friend, you will have to slowly but surely change yourself at the root.
So, what needs to be done, what to attract the attention of the guys. First, pay attention to your appearance. How do you dress, what hair do you wear, do you know how to use makeup? Remember that appearance is always very important for men. Being their friend, you should have noticed it. By the way, the fact that you have always been a friend can be used for yourself. After all, communicating with you, as with your man, men revealed themselves to you in many ways. Now you can use this, most importantly, correctly dispose of the information received.
But, first of all, let's return to your appearance. You have to stop looking outward, at least something to remind the guy. To do this, you need to stop wearing men's clothes and hair. These include sports suits, groomed hair. Also, if you do not use cosmetics, you need to learn this art. Every woman should be able to emphasize their advantages and hide the shortcomings. This art must be learned in order for the guys to see your attractiveness. Also, in order to be feminine, you need to learn how to wear clothes that emphasize your figure. For example, it is less likely to wear jeans and trousers. The skirt is clothing for a real woman. If you still wear jeans, try to wear those models that emphasize all your feminine charms. Also, you should always monitor your hair and wear that haircut that you really go. Forget the faceless tails and hair. You should always look normal. Even if the guys come to your house, you need to look normal. Of course, no one talks about evening make-up and expensive outfits. But you should always be combed, tinted, in clean clothes. Even if you like to walk in t-shirts, waiting for the arrival of friends, you need to dress so that even your home clothes do not hide the fact that you are a girl.
In addition to clothing and makeup, you should always remember your behavior. Pay attention to how you laugh, how to move, as you say. If you like loud laughter, sharp movements and never hold back emotions in a conversation, you will have to give it up. The girl should not behave defiantly. Remember that femininity is the main skate for every lady. Therefore, always watch yourself and hold back. At first it will be difficult, but, in time, you can do everything automatically. Remember that even those ladies who always called themselves "little girls", if they absolutely wanted to change, and, in time, they began to like their own femininity. Therefore, do not think and adjust yourself to the fact that you can not do anything. In fact, it's much easier than you think. Also, for the time of change, if possible, you need to refuse to communicate with the person you love. The fact is that he must see the new "you" already formed, and not watch the process. Be sure that if the changes are radical, the guy will notice and be pleasantly surprised. After this happens, do not relax at all. Understand that the first visual impression can ruin your behavior if you do not change it. So try to constantly control yourself and not allow any "male" stuff. Also, in order to stop being a friend, you should not patronize your children. Many girls-friends are always ready to help their men, to do a lot for them and for them. You do not have to do this. You are a girl. Remember this always. It's young people who must help you, behave respectfully, take care and care for you. Of course, you can worry and help, but do not put everything on your shoulders. Remember who you are and do not allow yourself to behave as if you are on an equal footing. You are weaker. So it should do less work, drink less and smoke.
In order to stop for the guys to be just their friend, you do not need so much time and energy. The main thing is to have patience and learn to control yourself. And never let your friends with new people call you a "brother" and "your peasant". In doing so, your friends unwittingly program new acquaintances on exactly this perception of your person. So talk to them and remind them that you're a girl. And although you really love them, but do not forgive a rude attitude and equalize you with them. If the guys feel that you are talking seriously and will see changes in yourself, you will cease to be for them only a friend, but you will also become a girl whom you can admire and love.