Finally, it is possible to force yourself to portray a nonverbal symbol, although most often people do not think about the position of their eyebrows, the muscles of their forehead, lips, chins, they do not look after involuntary touches to themselves during the conversation, they do not concentrate on the position of a personal body, too little control the intonation of his own voice and all sorts of things. From what? For the following reasons, non-verbal conversion, of course, it is considered a natural addition to the verbal, although it does not mean much explicit, but secret. To learn to read non-verbal cues that speak of sympathy in your address, or the attitude toward serious matters, you need to remember the following signs that you like a woman.
Mimic movements of the mouth, indicating sympathy from the object of the study
The little face is relaxed, although the mouth is half open, the upper teeth are noticeable. She plays with sponges: she backs them, bites, touches her tongue. Fingers, she slightly touchingly touches her own lips, if she has long fingernails, she touches them to her front teeth. These all manipulations look like an accidental touch, although they give out something that you like a woman and her desire to interest.
Look and move the eyes.
Observes the enthusiastic representative of the weaker sex carefully, and her pupils are expanded at the same time. This biological action - it can not be controlled or played. The excitation of consciousness causes the pupil to expand. Some experts in psychology say that in a serene situation (when there is no source of fright, experience and anxiety), the pupils expand only when they look at a pleasant, sympathetic interlocutor. The saying "Eyes - the mirror of the soul" best suits this episode. During the conversation, not only the gaze of the young lady plays, but all her face. Eyebrows periodically rise, making the face dazed and interested in the words of the interlocutor. The subject of pride for young ladies is their cilia, which, unconsciously, they are more likely to wink, talking with a pretty representative of the stronger sex, so the young ladies show the beauty of their eyelashes and lure partners. And still the sympathy from the lady gives unhappy fun eyes. This happens when a lady and a representative of the stronger sex are at a distance and have every chance to allow themselves to be contacted only with the help of gaze. The young lady looks and sharply translates her gaze, and then repeats it again, as though hiding, though, really, showing her own sympathy for the representative of the stronger sex.
Contact with hair.
And the fairer sex are proud of their own hair, because of this they often touch them during a period of communication with the stronger sex, not verbally telling them about their own sympathy. Contact with the hair also looks like an accidental act. The lady has the ability to throw them off her shoulders, straighten them, run her fingers into her hair ...
Nonverbal treatment with the help of posture and body movement.
The very first thing that gives out in the representative of the weaker sex is her desire to attract a representative of the stronger sex - smooth posture and heavy muscles of the back. In the case of music playing in the room, the lady unwillingly staggers at her pace, showing the elasticity of her body. Her legs are open, and when crossed, the upper leg lies so as to show the thigh. During the conversation, the legs rub against each other a little or about the leg of the table, chair. Carried away by the partner, the young lady unconsciously copies his posture, gestures, position of the body. In case you notice that the partner in some gestures and pantomime imitates you, know that on her part this is proof of your leadership.
Movements of hands are considered rather significant. When a lady during a conversation, gesticulating, turns her hands to you, be determined that you call her trust. About openness and sympathy this position of hands speaks: the elbow stays in a palm, and a palm, the same hand is turned upwards. Stroking your own wrist, the fairer sex also gives an opponent an addiction.
Indicative are the touching of the elements of the face with your fingertips, stroking your cheeks and lips. A non-verbal sympathy symbol at the address of the interlocutor is considered to be a touch of the representative of the weaker sex of their own clothes, things that are near, small parts of the decor.
And, of course, the voice of the young lady plays a significant role.
To them she tries to pay attention, to take a fancy, to be remembered. Are words significant at all? Yes! Although non-verbal information is also extremely significant. Concentrating on you, the representative of the weaker sex will say at the same volume as you. When your statements are soft and quiet - she will give a similar response, she will not try to break the harmony, and when you speak loudly - she will also speak in increased tones. With the speed of speech happens the same way. And also ladies understand that the inhabitants of our planet are joined by laughter and thanks to him they try to establish contact with a stronger representative of a stronger sex.