As correctly noted by astrologers and sages, men and women fall in love and show their feelings in different ways, because women are from Venus, and men from Mars. Because it is so difficult for us, half of the whole, to understand each other, because it is so hard to determine - do you love?
Not for all men this question becomes the main thing in life, but for women - for everyone at least once in a life, even for a short period, but the light with a wedge necessarily converges on it. The world in all its diversity fades into the background, leaving on the first only a painful question: how do you know if a man loves you? It has long been known that a woman is much more susceptible to the influence of feelings. The vast majority of Eva's daughters live with feelings, not knowing how to calculate something and think ahead. And therefore for a woman it may not matter who is her chosen one, where, how much she receives and who works. She can not really know anything about him, but almost always answers easily with such a simple question, from her point of view, whether she loves she is his.
Where is it more difficult to answer this question to a man! Often, even the representative of the strongest half can not understand whether he loves the chosen one. Some believe that this is not the main thing, others - that everything is clear without any questions, the third ones are afraid to admit, and the fourth simply do not know the answer to it. It's neither good nor bad, it's vital. Age, upbringing, outlook, position in society - all this has a huge impact on the character and temperament of the man. Like it to women or not, but they are arranged like this - for them feelings, emotions are not at first or even third place.
So how to be? How to find out the truth, in order not to suffer from the unknown, not to make plans that may not be realized? How to determine, or is all this just an appearance, a fragile semblance of real relationships?
To give an exact and absolutely effective advice here is unlikely to dare: it's not for nothing that they say that if you want to lose your head, settle the relationship between a woman and a man. However, that's exactly what you should not do, so it's "checking". No artificially staged "plays," set up situations, blown tragedies or invented problems will not lead to anything good. And it's not even in the acting skills of a woman and her assistants, and not in a well-built "scenario." Simply this all, even successfully played out, will not show the real state of things, because every adult person, based on experience, has a certain "set" of reactions to this or that situation, including non-standard. And if a man is also shrewd, if he suddenly realizes that he is being checked, the relationship can be ruined once and for all. Not every person is endowed with generosity, but nobody is deprived of pride and self-esteem.
To understand whether a man truly loves, only real life will help. In fact, you do not need anything deliberate. A woman is for that and a woman to feel and see. First of all, answer honestly the question - does he respect you? Did he introduce his parents, as he presented his circle of friends, colleagues? If yes, then this is fine - it means, and respect showed, and trust, and plans a long-term relationship. If not, then there is something to think about ...
If a man does not hesitate to talk about your predecessors and relations with them, then, apparently, he does not really value you and does not spare your feelings. If he does not talk about the past and even leaves direct questions, this should alert you.
Do not forget that the eyes are a mirror of the soul, look carefully, they necessarily reflect the answer to the main question. The notorious female intuition is also very useful. The main thing is to learn to trust her, and not to talk to friends, girlfriends and neighbors, to help her with observation and logic, and you can understand everything yourself.
For example, if a man is flooded with a nightingale, showering you with compliments, but "does not see" when to offer help, and when you just talk, calm down, - hardly he loves you. And if from time to time he also mentions "financial difficulties" and asks for something to pay, then here, as they say, and coffee grounds are not necessary: he just settled comfortably. And even if your chosen one is gentle and delicate, caring and generous, but only occasionally, this is also not an indicator of his love.
But if he tries to support you even when you are not right, to calm and distract when upset, does not forget some precious little thing or date for you, if he does not ridicule your fears and shares the hardships of life, gives not only gifts, but also your attention, time, the warmth of the soul - then you, obviously, are lucky. After all, the question whether he loves, just does not arise in your head.