Often women suffer because they feel as if they do not like anyone, or if all the men who are around do not interest them themselves. But it also happens that a lady likes a young man, but she can not meet with him. Why does this happen and what motivates women when they decide that they can not build a relationship with a certain young person?
Krasavetsi monster
It happens that the reason for this behavior is the lack of self-confidence and complexes. Looking at the handsome young man, behind whom the crowds of admirers flock, the girl simply can not believe that she, a gray mouse, absolutely not distinguished by beauty, can like such a fine guy. In this case, even if the young man himself comes up to her and offers to get acquainted, skoreevsego, the girl refuses. The fact is that at one time, over such representatives of the fair sex, a lot of laughing and bullied boys. This attitude is very strongly remembered and rooted in the subconscious. The girl thinks that she simply can not like anyone, especially a beautiful young man who has a reputation among the same beautiful youngsters.
An ugly girl (and more often than not, a girl who was instilled with such an idea), is sure that he can always pick a pair from the appropriate circle of women. The handsome guy will get acquainted with those whom he is not ashamed to say to friends with whom he can go to a cool party. She does not relate herself to such a category of women, and never took it. Therefore, the girl considers such an acquaintance with a beautiful young woman unreal. And if he decides to propose to meet her, then in ninety-nine cases out of a hundred the girl will take this cue and desire to play tricks on her, then simply laugh with her friends. That's why, no matter how the guy did not like, these girls very seldom risk themselves and start building relationships, because earlier they were very much fired on the trust in men.
He's a good ... too good
Some girls do not want to build relationships with men they like, because they believe that they can break their lives. By the way, this category of women is often just the right way. They simply know how to soberly analyze themselves and their behavior. Some ladies understand that a good kind guy with them just will not survive. He will suffer, watching how she changes to him, because it is a windy nature or devotes all his time to work, as a career for her above all else. These ladies try not to give men a reason to fall in love, because they do not want to be responsible for the fact that because of them the guys are disappointed in all women at once. In fact, such girls are good people who can love, but they do not want to change for someone and make compromises. Often they consider themselves too patchy, self-willed and unauthorized, and this can not be tolerated by any man. Especially if he is a good and kind person. Therefore, knowing that they are simply not created for a normal family life, such girls try not to show their feelings, so, God forbid, not to please a young man and not ruin his life. Many people think that people change their love, only the right person is needed. Such girls know that such affirmations are not true. Love only changes for a while, and then the person starts behaving the same way again, as before. And this behavior and way of life, which they prefer, certainly will not please good and kind young people who want to create a normal family and live next to the keeper of the hearth, and not with a crazy fury who does not know what she will do and where she will bring in the next minute.
The IdealPrince
Many of us idealize people, but only some have the strength to admit it to themselves. Such girls, looking at the ideal guy, perfectly aware of the fact that they came up with a character, the best, smart, sensitive and beautiful. They understand that they like not the guy, but the image that they created on his basis. And looking at this image, the girl finds it easier to live believing that real men still exist. They are reluctant to meet such an ideal young man, because they understand that the illusion can disintegrate and a moment of deep disappointment will come. And this is absolutely not necessary. They can be friends with their ideal prince, but at the same time do not allow them to cross the line beyond which everything will become different. In fact, every woman is interested in such a prince, so as not to be completely disappointed in the male half of humanity. But many people, seeing their ideal, or rather, inventing etotideal, try to build relationships with it and make it what they represent themselves. Naturally, men start to rebel against such behavior, and in the end, comes disappointment. Only a few manage to stay away from the ideal at a distance to allow themselves to live in an illusory world, without affecting the life and psyche of the ideal prince, who often does not want to be so.
Simply too different
Well, one more reason why women do not want to build relationships with those who like them are different characters and goals in life. A girl can really like a young man. Moreover, she can love him, but at the same time understand that together they simply will not get along, because their idea of family life and life in general are very different. For example, a young man wants a good family, children, wants to come to a cozy house and relax in a family environment. A girl feels that she does not have any desire to have children, cook, wash and clean. She is a creative person who wants to create something, to travel, in general, to live the way she likes. In this situation, the lady understands that the young man will experience with it just the torment. Maybe the opposite, when a woman wants to constantly develop, discover something new, travel, create an ideal family, think about the future, and a man who loves her, is quite satisfied with the most usual work, life today, a small apartment. He does not want anything but his beloved women. And she wants everything and understands that she can not change it, because it is quite different and just will not survive such changes, will lose its individuality. And in such cases, the girls refuse to relate to those they love, so that this love does not turn into mutual hatred and irritation.