Love is a feeling that, especially at a young age, is not difficult to confuse with a combination of similar emotions. And to feel the line between real love and "made-up" is difficult, but possible. True love is not a poem that sings of love, not bouquets of flowers, beautiful dawns or sunsets. It's just a bluff. Love is not appropriate or convenient. A person who truly loves concessions and compromises, he unconditionally trusts his lover. Those who really love hearts do not need words to talk heart to heart. In a word, love is a union of two friends. But personalities, with selfish and selfish character traits, are very difficult to love for real, this in their cases happens rarely.
There are several signs on which it is possible to determine the true feeling that you are experiencing, or not.
1. Strong emotional impact. Do you notice that a certain person, you do not just like it externally. Do you have a pleasant feeling that comes after communicating with this person? Do you feel positive energy from his gaze or a smile? If so, then this is the sign of that very real feeling. Sometimes, love is like a burning wind, it can be inexplicably strong, in its drives. But, one can not forget that there is such a thing, but, alas, a short-lived feeling that is built only on the attraction of the body, the irresistible desire of the same person to whom you try to feel such feelings. Such displays of feelings are characteristic at the first, beginning stage of relations, but all this is still far from love.
The real feeling is the unity of the three drives. It is unity, unity of body and unity of mind. Hence follows the conclusion that love is based not only on physical drives. The spiritual side is very important here. This, when you are drawn not to the image and appearance of your chosen one, but also to his soul, next to him, you feel the affinity of your souls, when you are out there, you are well and calm. And you, you know, that your chosen one has certain disadvantages, which you consider to correct, but later, this fact shows that you do not perceive him as he is, and also says that there is no love on your part. Because, experiencing true love, you do not see a single flaw, and in your chosen one you like everything, to the small detail.
2. Absolutely different views. Experiencing a real, so strong feeling, a person begins to argue differently, in a different way to look at the world, completely different eyes. Love makes a person happy, cheerful, love, as if "inspires" him. Another point, if a person tries to call a partner to feelings, through, for example, a call of jealousy, this indicates that there is no love, and there can be such desires as to see the emotions of the couple through his suffering, a manifestation of present feelings.
If, you love, then by any means be sure to achieve only that, to make pleasant to the elect or to the chosen one. And in your thoughts you always have only what you can give to your loved one, but not what you would like to receive from him. A truly loving person is ready for a new endeavor for the sake of a loved one, he does not wait for him to be asked about anything, he thinks about what he can do and how to do it.
3. The most important thing is trust. Do you have a desire, share with someone new impressions, certain news. Or, maybe, you want to trust this person, telling just about something important? Be confident, to this person you feel a deep enough feeling. Evaluation of something you like is very important for you, and only you can do it. From a loved one you can not hide anything, since you completely trust him. And if you often hide something from your half, believing that maybe something he will not understand, or think that there are things that he does not need to know, it all says only that you do not trust your loved one . And if there is no trust, then he is not at all beloved, because love is built on trust. Beloved is the most important person in your life, and it is his advice that should be of great value to you.
4. No doubts. So it turned out that your environment is criticized in every possible way by your choice? Underline the shortcomings in his character or behavior? And with all this, you do not pay any attention to the opinion of the people around? Be confident that you are experiencing a really strong feeling. A loving person brings his chosen one to perfection, to the ideal, and there can not be any doubts in the beloved at the same time.
Liked is a person whom you want to always see the ward, give him your warmth and affection. You are sure that this person is he, the one you have been waiting for all your life.