Girls are very vulnerable, indisputably sensual creatures, which sometimes are more difficult to survive quarrels, grievances and misunderstandings with a loved one. Each of them dreams of becoming for his boyfriend the most beloved, the best girl in the world. But they often ask questions: "why did he take offense?", "What should I do?", "How can he explain that this is unpleasant?", Etc. There are hundreds or thousands of such questions.
But still, every day the same question is asked several times: how to become the best girl for your boyfriend?
Probably, every girl very often thinks that any of your mistake, small mistakes or misunderstood by your young man's words cause a lot of unpleasant disputes and grievances. But think: more than 53% of men thoroughly try to study the problems of their relationship, but they come to the conclusion that it is much easier for a woman to get out of a situation with a smile on her face quicker. Do not show your boyfriend a complaint about the fact that he listens to you inattentively or misunderstood your words.
Sometimes it happens that a couple of words that we said to a loved one do not make any sense to us, while a man can be very offended, or may significantly reduce his self-esteem. Try to avoid harsh words in clarifying the problem, but rather, in general, wait for a warm, calm, comfortable environment, which will not, when clarifying the reasons and grievances, provoke you to new quarrels. Men really like it when they pay much attention, appreciate, respect and show how much they love him. The main thing is not to overdo it. After all, if a young man shows that he is in a relationship decides everything, then it will be difficult to come together with him on one thing, keep this in mind when answering the question: "how to be the best girl for your boyfriend."
Very many men, but mostly guys, believe that they will give the girl so much warmth, tenderness and love, how many will receive in return (this is like the famous phrase "you to me - I to you"). In particular, this happens in many cases because your young man had a bad life experience in dealing with girls. When he tries and does everything that he can and as soon as he can, and in return receives nothing, or receives, but, as he considers insufficiently and with a full soul of indifference to his feelings. After such situations, people can very sharply change. All the girls relate to this in different ways: some do not want to think much about it and have a lot of problems and inconveniences, and some really want to help the other half find themselves again, even if it takes an indefinite time. When there is a loving girl nearby, you can change everything. This is indisputable, since if a young man really loves - he can not let go of his beloved or think that she will be with someone else.
The same question is often raised: Why does he rarely call me, and we almost never see each other? But not always it is only in your young man. Think about it, or maybe you are doing something wrong? Even the most ordinary and loving young man can very seriously experience moments when at every meeting you start to solve any problems or find the global magnitude of the problem in your relationship.
Thus, in order to avoid unnecessary waste, men are simply looking for occasions, even the most stupid ones, just to not meet with you at one time or another. Of course, there are other reasons. A man may be upset by problems with friends or an unfortunate situation at work. The best way without irritating your loved one is to find out what all the same has happened to him and what's bothering him is to rest somewhere together (it's not necessary to organize a grand trip to the sea, an evening or two-hour walk in the park is enough). In some cases, the young man must be supported. If he immediately tells you what his problem is and what exactly bothers him - he trusts you completely and expects support only from you. Do not think about the fact that a man should be harder and be able to solve his problems. This is also a man and his feelings are not iron. But it's important to remember that if your second half does not have a mood at your meeting or he just turns away from any word - this is not a situation where you need to solve your problems in a relationship. Do not try to find out anything - it will only get worse and, in general, it is not known what can end.
Do you want to become the best girl for your boyfriend? Learn to understand it. After all, even after three months of communication, you can put a fairly clear and concise summary of his character, his favorite things and phrases, interests and hobbies, the circle of communication and attitude to you. It is important to learn to become a guy absolutely everything: mom, dad, a close and understanding friend, a cheerful interlocutor and only then a girl. Be able to support in difficult times, laugh at your stupidities and quarrels, and reduce all grievances to a gentle smile and the desire to be there always.