How to survive a temporary separation?

In our life, everything happens. With the beloved we are happy together, and it seems that nothing will separate us. But it happens that the loved one is leaving for another city or for a foreign country, on a business trip. So the separation comes, which can last not only a week or a month, but six months or more. It is necessary to decide how to survive a temporary separation.

It's hard parting.

It is very difficult to part in the separation at the first time, it seems that the heart will break with anguish. After some time, the strength of anguish is dulled, but the pain still remains. How can we survive the separation so that the situation can be turned in our favor? Believe me, if you miss all the time constantly cry, then the face will begin to appear wrinkles. And in time, just forget how to enjoy life. Believe me, from the fact that you will constantly look at photos and cry in a pillow you will not feel any better.

Try on the other hand to look at this situation. Your loved one has left, most likely, for the sake of your future, and not at your own will. Most likely, he studies there or earns on your life together, or moves on in his career. In other words, it tries for your future with him. Believe me, it's also not easy for him to survive the separation. But it is unlikely that he has much time for experience.

The best medicine is work.

Devote all your strength to work if you work. You will devote your free time to professional duties. It is possible that you will receive a promotion, thereby delight your loved one upon his return. If you do not work, then go through a temporary, but from this no less painful separation will help your favorite hobby.

Maybe you can embroider, sew or knit? If so, then you will not be bored. Time will fly by unnoticed, and you will get a double pleasure if you deal with the TV. After all, under the favorite programs, the work will go well. What a surprise for your man, when he comes back, you will give him knitted socks or a warm sweater. Hang on the walls inserted in the picture frame. After all, this will mean that you thought about him, wanted to make it pleasant for him and looked forward to it.

Take care of yourself, take advantage of your free time with benefit. By the arrival of your man, be simply irresistible. Start going to the pool, sign up for the gym, do exercises in the morning. Make yourself a beautiful hairstyle, go for a massage. You will become simply beautiful. It is not necessary to absorb constantly cakes and sweets, which help to cope with anguish, because you add to the volume.

If you have the opportunity, then repair some part of the apartment, or even the entire apartment. So you will usefully part time separation. This will be a pleasant surprise for your loved one. If you live in a private home, where there is a site, then try to make a stunning flower bed. Plant exotic plants, start a flower garden. On the Internet, you can find many suggestions.

Communication and once again communication.

Days will fly faster if you register for accounting courses, foreign languages, guitar courses or theater classes, etc. If you have a girlfriend, you can do it together.

In your notebook you will certainly find the phone numbers of friends with whom you have not talked for a long time due to lack of time. If you do not maintain friendship all the time, no matter how strong she is, she will "wither away." You can recall childhood and adolescence by calling your classmates and classmates and meet in a friendly company. With them you can chat a lot, discuss the news. With them you can share your sorrows and joys. You will be helped to relieve the separation from your loved one with sincere words of comfort.

Experiencing a temporary separation, you can come up with a lot of activities that will distract you from dreary thoughts. In addition to what has been suggested, there are many other activities. For example, you can read many interesting books. Try to write poetry - who knows, maybe you have talent. For the winter to prepare a variety of salmon and jam. Communicate more often with your parents and friends, invite your male parents to dinner, etc.

The most important thing is to find yourself, what kind of occupation or do not be withdrawn from your longing. After all, in any interesting business, time passes unnoticed.