If you feel that there was a love of love began to fade, the relationship became boring and mundane, then it's time to reflect on how to bring diversity to your family life and paint it with new vivid colors.
Create family traditions
In our life, not so many holidays. And if you will spend time together only on such holidays, then such a family will not last long.
Start your joint living with the creation of family traditions that will be respected in your family. For example, on a particular day you can visit your parents, go to the cinema or invite friends or relatives to visit.
Do not forget about your personal special dates. You can celebrate your day of acquaintance or the day you first kissed. Mark these dates in the calendar in red, so that you do not forget about them and make special visits these days.
Spend time together
In this case, it is not meant that you should stay together at home. Everyone is often busy with their own affairs, completely ignoring their second half. For example, a husband watches television, and his wife reads a book all evening, while the couple for several hours can not say neslov.
Take time to each other. You can together look at some new film or read a book, or even sit on the Internet. The main thing is that you together are engaged in the same thing, and both of you were interested in it.
Continue to monitor your own appearance
Surely, when you started to meet, you did not allow your future husband to see yourself without make-up and hairstyles. Over time, you have become accustomed to each other and have ceased to exist, began to appear before him, to put it mildly, without having an ideal external appearance.
In fact, in relations between people, very often there is a chill simply because they stop courting themselves properly. And now remember when you specially made a beautiful hairstyle or makeup. When you, trying to seduce him, bought a sexy dress? If you remember and it was recently, it means that everything is not lost. But if your favorite outfit is a shapeless T-shirt and shabby schoolgirls, then it's no wonder why the husband has cooled to you.
Take care of yourself. Of course, too sharp changes in your image do not, as this can shock the muzh. But a little update the wardrobe, change the hair and buy a new cosmetics is necessary. The husband will certainly appreciate your efforts, which will immediately reflect positively on your relationship.
Give presents
Do not wait for a special reason to give a loved one a gift. Even the thing necessary to him, which the wit would have been bought, can be packed into a bright wrapper and solemnly presented, writing a few warm words on a beautiful postcard. Your beloved person will be very pleased with your attention.
Change the emotional background
Very often people get bored with each other, because they become too predictable. That is why it is important to periodically change the emotional background, doing unpredictable acts and not responding to the behavior of your second half.
For example, your husband is accustomed to trying to quarrel or find out a relationship, you always run away, slamming the door. He does not expect another reaction from you. Try to change your behavior. In the next time during an argument unexpectedly approach him, hug, kiss. Perhaps in the first seconds it will be difficult for you, because you have to overpower your own guilt. But believe me, the desire to quarrel will disappear for both of you very quickly.
Personal space
Each spouse must have a personal space. This means that you can not completely dissolve in the family. You should have your own interests, friends, hobbies and hobbies. Do not be afraid that it will alienate you from each other. On the contrary, you will have much more common topics for conversation, as everyone will have something to tell.
Stay beautiful and interesting
Spouses who somehow live together, are so used to each other that they begin to perceive their second half as a matter of course. Surely, your husband almost does not doubt that you can not get away anywhere. That's why you just need to give him to understand that this is not so, that you are beautiful and interesting, and so he thinks not only, but many other men who throw admiring glances at you.
It's true, to go too far with flirting with men, it's not worthwhile not to provoke a scandal. If you look good, the husband will notice that you like others and will look at you with completely different eyes.
Intimate Relationships
Perhaps some women consider that in relationships, sex is not the main component. At the same time, most men think this way. Bright and intense intimate life for them to some extent is an indicator of their male viability.
If you want everything to be perfect, do not forget about sex. Everything must always be like the first time. Ordinary and monotonous are the first enemies of sex, which eventually kill desire. Try new poses, buy sexy clothes and underwear, stimulate your man in all sorts of ways, and the results will not keep you waiting, and sex will bring satisfaction to the vamoboim.
Remember, one love is not enough. Family life is a colossal work that the two spouses must deal with in order to achieve harmony and understanding in the family.