But still, let's look into the situation and decide whether you need to be jealous of your boyfriend to the ex-girlfriend. First, you need to understand what exactly causes this jealousy. It happens that it has enough serious soil. For example, a guy very often talks about his ex. If so, then answer: in which key. If he remembers her with anger and hatred, then, most likely, it's still not a reason for jealousy. Just the former passion too much offended the young man, and he can not let go of hatred, forgive and forget. Of course, this is also not the best option, since it is known that from love to hatred one step, as well as vice versa.
But still, in this case, the reason for jealousy you have minimal. But in the case when the guy is constantly nostalgic, he remembers where they have been, how they lived, how they rested, trying to drive you along the "places of military glory", here you are already not gently jealous. It's worth thinking about, but does he love you at all?
If in his head and heart there are so many memories of the former, then he has not yet said goodbye emotionally to her and is unlikely to do so in the near future. In this case, perhaps you should stop the relationship. After all, you will agree, it will be very painful, if one day is not a perfect day, your guy suddenly declares that he is returning to his former. That's when you fully get used to it, will make plans for the future and love, this news will shock the depression and lead to a nervous breakdown. Therefore, it is worth discussing with him this situation now and if the guy does not get right, just break the relationship. Of course, you will be hurt and sad, but this is the best way out of the situation.
When else are we jealous of guys the most? Probably, in the event that his ex-girlfriend constantly appears in his life. The first option - they remained friends. It happens that people from the same company meet, then diverge, but continue to communicate, because they are connected not only with the relationship, but also with many other things. In this case, do not start immediately roll up the tantrums and be jealous. Better take a closer look at his ex-girlfriend.
Look at how they behave together, how she looks at him, how she communicates. Women always feel if there is competition from another lady, so trust your intuition. If a girl really positions herself only as a friend and this is indicated by her behavior, then do not spoil those relationships. Perhaps she will soon become a close friend to you. Indeed, it happens that the feelings between people fade, but the concept of friendship remains forever. So just be objective in assessing the situation. But if the lady clearly treats your boyfriend more than she does to a friend, she tries, as it were, imperceptibly to humiliate you in his eyes and frankly flirts. In that case, try to talk with the guy and open his eyes to the situation.
It happens that men really do not notice what we see. So try to calmly explain to him how unpleasant it is to see that another woman is frankly hanging on his neck. If your man is an intelligent person, he will necessarily understand everything, talk with the former, explain his position to her and if she does not abandon him, he will simply avoid contact. If the guy does not see anything and does not want to see, then try to limit their communication. In the event that a man begins to resist it vigorously, think about the fact that, most likely, his feelings have not yet passed, and whether you need such a relationship.
There is another option, when the former girl constantly gets into your life. In this case, the guy does not have guilt, because the lady is just following him. There are such egocentric personalities who can not let go of people. Such women continue to call, come under doors, write in ICQ and contact and completely ignore the presence of you in the life of this person. They are completely confident that you are only a bad substitute, that a young man is simply obliged to think about and come back. In such situations, do not be jealous. Better support your young man. Of course, if you see that this really does not flatter him and he is already tired of the hysterics of the former. With such girls it is very difficult to cope, because they do not understand the words, but normal men do not use force. That's why, you just have to ignore the obsessive person and wait for her to calm down.
If this irritates you too much, you can, of course, find girlfriends who, as they say, "do not put a finger in your mouth, and then bite off your hand" and go to this lady for a "preventive conversation". But it's not a fact that even this will help, because such women can simply have mild mental abnormalities and therefore they are never interested in anything but an adored goal, which in this case is your favorite person. Therefore, it is best to just find the strength to ignore her behavior and not pay attention. To hysterics, men never return, so you have no cause for concern. Well, if your boyfriend never remembers the former, does not talk about her, and she does not appear in your life either, then do not do anything stupid and forget about jealousy. It's just your whim. Therefore, stop spoiling your nerves and enjoy the happiness and love that life gives you, because it is his past and you are the future.