How to behave during pregnancy

Life is what we see it. Therefore, the same events by different women can be perceived in different ways. It is important not to treat your condition as a disease or something unpleasant. Initially, try to enjoy every minute of pregnancy, do not rush things. Think about the good. Often, women are harassed by fears about the health of the child, especially if the pregnancy is complicated.

In this case, there is one very effective exercise: close your eyes and imagine your baby as precisely as possible. Recalculate each finger on his hands and feet, look into his smart beautiful eyes. Imagine how he smiles, how he reaches out to you. Admire them, fix this picture in your memory. If it does not work out the first time, repeat until the image becomes clear. And then whenever you are going to be visited by bad forebodings, "include" the invented image. "Believe me, this is a very powerful defense against negative thoughts and emotions.
Do not close yourselves and your condition. Remember that right now you have a lot of free time, which after the birth of a crumb will not appear very soon. Of course, one should not try to realize everything that has been dreamed of for many years, but it is also not worth taking minutes to listen to the sensations of one's own body. Meet with friends, go to a cafe, guests, and there are not enough opportunities for an interesting pastime! Distract from your condition, talk with your friends on pleasant topics, and time will go much faster.
Trust, but check. If you are attuned to natural births, feel fine, and the doctor insists on cesarean section, try to consult with other specialists. A pregnant pregnancy is not a diagnosis. The baby can be born without any signs of overstretching and at 42 weeks. The need for stimulation and caesarean section should be confirmed by analyzes and ultrasound.
Do not forget that now you are responsible not only for yourself, but for the baby. Therefore, you should not mope for very long. Talk with a pussy, tell us how you are waiting for its inmate, how you can not wait to see it and pick it up. In the end, promise the kid something. In general, use all means to lure your little partisan into the light of God.
If the child is not the first, give as much time as possible to the elder. After all, he and so soon will not just. If you expect a first child, the role of the older child may well be fulfilled by the husband. Do you want it or not, but with the birth of a baby, your attention will involuntarily switch to him, the wife of caress and kind words will be given incomparably less. Give your husband a holiday, let him fully enjoy your love. Remember about leisure. Maybe you have long wanted to see a movie or read an interesting book? Now you have the opportunity to implement many plans (of course, if it's not about skydiving or rafting on a mountain river). Hurry up not to give birth, but to do what has long been planned, but did not have time to implement. Pregnancy is one of the happiest moments of your life. The child is always with you, without having to think about what to feed him or what to wear. And the attitude of others towards a woman who is expecting a child, and to a new mother, however insulting, is far from being the same. Now all the attention and care of loved ones are directed at you, then the lion's share of attention of the domestic ones will belong to the baby. There are many ways to kill time, but is it worth it? After all, it is already very fleeting. Live this day, enjoy every minute, every moment, especially since no other child has stayed inside the mother and the culinary moment will surely come. Your time will certainly come. Finally I would like to note that pregnancy is one of the most pleasant periods in the life of most women, even if at that time it seems to them otherwise. Rejoice, and let the whole world envy you.