1. The complex is second.
To recognize this complex the man will not make much effort. If you notice that a man is looking at you without taking his eyes off, then he likes you very much. But he is afraid to approach you and how you would not look chic, he somehow chooses that woman, who looks much simpler and more modest than you.
What to do in this situation? As the well-known psychologist Dmitry Sinarev explains, this happens for the reason that a man, seeing a beautiful woman, immediately begins to think that she must have someone. And that his chances are very small, and such a woman can not be alone. And even if he gets acquainted with her and starts a relationship, he will always have to fight for her attention, as she will always be surrounded by crowds of fans. To prevent such thoughts from a man, you need to approach him first. And believe me, he will understand that you are interested and that it is very easy to communicate with you.
2. Complex worthless lover.
If you notice that your man is constantly apologizing for what he has not done yet. Or he constantly asks if he does everything, then he either takes great care of you, or suffers from the complex to turn out to be a bad lover. Constantly competing with someone, speaks about his low self-esteem. If a man asks you how many lovers were before him and who was better, it may lead to the fact that he will tell you that you have been corrupted, and he can not relax with you. And also he will tell you that he can not trust you anymore, and then all your relationships will be lost.
so that this does not happen, you need to explain to him that he is the best and the only one. Tell him that you left the former lovers, because he is the best and there is no one better than him in the world. You must help him to be liberated.
3. Complex to be deceived.
Recognizing such a complex is not at all difficult, since it is extremely rare. If you spend a lot of time with your man, and he never hugged you during this time. And on your attempts to approach him, he moves away from you and constantly talks about his former friends and tells how they threw him. He can talk about this for hours without stopping.
In such cases, you need to use wait tactics. Do not try to immediately build a relationship with him. After all, men with such a complex are afraid to trust you and it seems to them that you, like others use it. Let your man know that the first step you are expecting is from him. Be spontaneous and sincere, because he does not expect this from you, and thus you can break all his usual schemes.
4. Complex of the unrealized man.
If your man comes home from work, listens to all your stories, what you did during the day, while he himself does not say anything about his problems, then this complex exists in him.
It is very important for any man to be realized. If he is not happy with his profession, and she does not bring him pleasure, then he will suffer from the complex for the rest of his life. Try to help him, ask him what he loved to do in his childhood, what was his favorite hobby? And, based on his answer, help realize his childhood hobby in a real hobby in adulthood. When he has some hobby, he can enjoy life and get rid of this complex.
5. Complex look like a papal.
Most often this complex appears when there is a big age difference between a man and a woman. Try to tell your man that he is much better than others and that there is no one more interesting in the world. Constantly remind him of this.
6. A complex of the constant honors pupil.
Such men always try to be better than someone and are very worried if they can not do what they promised.
You need to let your man know that you do not need much from him. What you have is enough in life and one star from the sky you more than enough.
7. Inferiority complex.
Inferiority complex is for any person. The only thing we need to determine is how much this complex is interfering with your man. A sign of inferiority, is jealousy.
Try to tell your man more often about his virtues. Praise his mind and sense of humor. But, and if your man began to recoup because of his complexes, then think about whether it is worth fighting with his complex to endure all this.
8. Complex of insufficient amount of money.
Men with such a complex, when they pass by an expensive restaurant, lower their heads and evade the conversation on financial topics. And people living in abundance, calls bourgeois. And also there are men who keep saying about how it would be good if they wore expensive suits, went on an expensive car and lived on Rublyovka.
If you notice such traits in your man, then you need to try to explain to him that apart from material benefits, there are also spiritual traits. Prove your man that you do not care how much money he has and that you love him no matter how much he earns. What is most important for you in life is his attention and that it is more expensive than any money.
9. Complex of discrepancy.
It happens because you are different and do not fit each other according to your status. And they grew up in quite different conditions. If you notice such a complex with your man, you need to try to find common interests and do one thing. Try to use the word more often. You need to become one.
10. The crisis of middle age.
Every man has two age-related crises in his life. The first crisis occurs in 30 years, and the second occurs in 40-45 years. In the first age crisis, a man sums up what he has achieved and what he has yet to do. And in the second crisis, he is working on his life's mistakes, he may have a desire to change jobs and even the people who surround him.
In the first age crisis, you are threatened with a break in the relationship or an offer to marry. But the second crisis is more difficult to survive. You must be patient and become a true friend for him.
Now we know how to cope with 10 male complexes and will always be able to change our beloved men for the better.