Rules for parents
You can not leave your child unattended. This is an axiom! Protect your child from a maniac and rapist, try to control the places of his walks, forbid walking alone in potentially dangerous places (construction sites, kindergartens and squares in the evening). If you can not follow the child, negotiate with the parents of other children so that they control yours.
A well-bred domestic child is a lure of a rapist: he is trusting, obedient and used to trusting the elders. Teach your child not to come into contact with a stranger, even under a plausible pretext - to help look for a dog, open a door, start a car, etc.
Maniacs are cunning : turning around the playground and overhearing the conversations of the guys, he can turn to the child by name, introduce himself as a friend of the pope, a colleague of the mother. Often remind the baby, suggest that no one in the absence of parents will not ask for anything. The child should obey only you! In addition, no foreign adult will seek help from a child. Teach your son or daughter in such situations tactfully, but firmly respond: "Ask for help from adults." And forget your experiences, this act is polite towards a stranger or not.
The child should avoid contact with people at risk. This - drug addicts, alcoholics, previously convicted. If such people exist among your neighbors, forbid the child to communicate with them. Not only men are at risk in the risk group. Often, alcoholics, drug addicts and rapists are volunteers for their cohabitants, luring children to reprisal. Guys instinctively trust the ladies more.
Americans teach their children : if they are kidnapped in a crowded place, you need to shout: "Help, I do not know, I am kidnapped!" Then they will definitely come to the rescue, and the pedophile will most likely throw the chosen victim, being frightened of others. If the child only cries or tries to escape, passers-by may think that the baby is just being naughty, and will pass by.
Most rapes of children are committed in homes - in attics, in elevators or just in the entrances. Try to protect your home as much as possible. What can be done? Demand in the housing office to install metal doors in the entrance, attic and cellar, and also, so that they are always locked, and not standing unbuttoned. If there is an elevator in the house, require that the monitors pair the buttons "stop" and "call the dispatcher". Of course, this requires certain costs, but the safety of the child is more expensive.
Do everything so that the child does not provoke the offender appearance. Nimfets should not wear a mini-skirt, stockings and other attributes of an adult woman. It is not necessary to wear expensive gold jewelry.
There are cases when the perpetrator attacked the rich prey, but, sensing the horror of the victim, a pedophile woke up in it. Often, maniacs have a fetish (for example, white pantyhose). If you have a rapist in the area, and the police have reported data on him, avoid dressing the child in those things that may be a bait for him.
Unfortunately, a huge number of cases are recorded when the child is corrupted by a close friend of the family or even by a relative. And children in such cases, almost always, are silent to "do not upset my mother," and therefore a pedophile can "play" with them for years. If you see that someone from your acquaintance suddenly begins to show interest in your girl (most often between the ages of 12 and 15), making her "adult" compliments, slightly "dismissing her hands," is an alarming signal. Refuse such a person from home. If you see that something is threatening not even your own, but someone else's child, he is in some kind of ambiguous situation - do not pass by, try to help him.
On a note
Some mobile operators offer parents a special service called "Mayachok". If your child has a mobile phone, by sending a request, you can see his location on the city map. This is convenient also because you do not pull the child with constant calls and esemesks, developing at him "a complex of supervision".